/abdl/ - Adult Baby - Diaper Lover★

>Am I being an entitled millennial and expecting too much?

Buy a home with a mortgage goyim and be a dept slave the rest of your life!

But I hear you, it fucking sucks. Where I live unless you get a lot of help from the government which means acting like a nigger there is no way to realistically move out on your own at a young age which is disgusting frankly

Why aren't you able to get a better job? What's your degree in?

Have you considered working outside your degree field if it doesn't pay adequately?

There are a lot of jobs out there that may not be "glamorous" but they pay well.

I dropped out of college at 20. Got a job in a factory. Bought a house at 27. I've got a 45k base pay, make another 15-20 a year depending on how much OT I do, get great health and dental for only $55 a week, and get my 401k matched up to 8%.

Hell, a fucking garbage man in most areas make 35-40k plus a year.

>>36241

>Got a job in a factory

Where at? Would love to get one but they all closed down where I live

>>36242

Where at as in what part of the country or what company?

New England.

I won't say the company because it's very well known….not that anyone would be able to randomly guess who I am, but still….

And unfortunately this is the last good paying factory job in my area too.

This use to be a huge manufacturing town. A lot of big name companies. They've all shut down or outsourced though.

>>36243

>New England

Well shit. I'm in the wrong part of the world. Sucks being Europoor

You'd be surprised how easily you can wear in public with almost no risk of being found out. Even if someone does call you out for it (which nobody would do that), you can calmly explain you're wearing diapers for medical reasons. Boom, done.

For your housing situation - actually do some research on different mortgages. There are all sorts, some that require a cash down payment (what you're likely afraid of), as well as some that require a tiny down payment.

Also look into the place's going tax rate. A loan agent will be able to further guide you along.

t. a 30 year old guy that owns his own house, a truck, a dog, a fledgling nursery, etc.

I feel the pain man.

I have just kind of had to accept that diapers are not gonna be able to be a big thing in my life for a while. I'm currently living with a roommate so I haven't been able to do stuff for a while, but it doesn't bother me as much as I thought it would since I have other stuff to put my mind on. I dropped out of college because I realized that I didn't actually like computer science, so now I am just working enough to pay the rent and buy food while pursuing a career as a musician. I know that that is extremely counter intuitive if I need money, but as I have gotten older I have realized that diapers are only one thing among many that me happy.

Start wearing 24/7 and tell your roommate it's for medical reasons. Problem solved.

>>36243

Are you on here impersonating me or something? Good luck getting a house when the average price for a house is $300k+ and all new houses being built seem to be $600k+.

>>36241

Yeah, I'm 24, got a job in my field and it's looking like I won't be able to move out of my parents' house until I'm 27.

I have abdl friends who live with vanilla roommates and tbh I have it better. More money to spend on diapers, more time to enjoy them.

I could move out now but I am not taking out a mortgage.

>tfw if I wasnt such a degenerate I would just stay with my parents, sell our current house, and buy a bigger house where I could start my own family.

>>36258

Not the other anon, but that's exactly what I did. Worked by butt off at a company for most of a decade and then bought a house in the suburbs of Boston for $350k. It's not huge, but it's private and allows me to have kinky events in private.

>>36258

You can get a good house for less than that in most areas.

Now, am I 100% satisfied with my house and the city I live in?

No, absolutely not.

But it's human nature to always want something "more" and something "better".

At the end of the day though….I'm happy.

I live in a very good suburban neighborhood, but in a city that is overall crime ridden. Lots of poverty in other areas, gang activity, and the heroin epidemic has hit especially hard here.

But like I said, the area I live in is nice and it's safe.

I paid $225k for my house.

I spent 7 years saving up a good down payment.

It's a 3 bedroom, 2 floor, 1300sq foot home on a 8000sq foot lot. Driveway and detached garage.

Structurally the house is in great shape.

The interior is slightly outdated, having been redone in the mid 90's but everything is in good shape. To be honest, that doesn't even bother me. So, I've got a kitchen with honey oak cabinets, my counters aren't granite, and the house was built in 1951 so obviously it's not "open concept". But so what? I don't even get the open concept obsession. If I'm watching TV in my living room I don't want to see the dirty dishes in my kitchen out of the corner of my eye. And the "out of style" honey oak cabinets I have are in great shape and were extremely popular and very expensive when they were put in during the 90's. Will I have to upgrade them eventually? Sure. I'm not in a rush though, because anything I put in now will be out of style just like my current cabinets by the time I'm 50.

At the end of the day though, I'm paying 750 a month for my mortgage. And that's escrow. I get hit with fucking $3k+ in property taxes because I live in the "good" part of the city.

Of course, like I said, I saved up a decent chunk of change for a down payment because I lived at home from 20 to 27 with no rent and was making 33k a year at 20, up to 39k by the time I bought the house.

I know not everyone is that lucky.

I'll always advocate buying over renting though. The pros outweigh the cons.

Even if you can't save enough for a traditional mortgage, get an FHA. Sure, your monthly payments will be higher with PMI, etc…..but you're only going to need 3.5% down.

>>36260

How much are you letting this fetish control your life?

That seems like the bigger issue here.

I had an attraction to diapers/abdl/humiliation since I was like 5 fucking years old.

I remember being like 5 years old, with my 4 year old female cousin in the room, humping up against my mattress and saying to her, "I still wear diapers".

Obviously I didn't, and she threw the puzzle she making at me and yelled, "No you don't!"

But my fucking point is, how much do you let this fetish control your life?

I've been a "degenerate" since I was like a fucking 5 year old.

Guess what though? I don't NEED diapers in my life. I can, and have gone over a year without wearing them. I'm not denying they are a huge part of my sexuality, but they don't determine HOW I LIVE MY LIFE.

If ANY fetish is causing issues for your overall life and financial situation, then you need to see a therapist.

>>36260

You could always tell your parents you've developed a bedwetting problem. You'll just have to lie about getting medical tests done and so on. That could at least cover normie adult diapers being in your room

I live with my soon to be wife but we bought our house at 22. She worked part time at the time and I'm a journeyman mechanic. We paid 317K for a 1980s build 942sqft bungalow, 3 bed, 2 bath with fully developed basement with big rec/living room area and another *bedroom* but can't be classified as one as it doesn't have a window. We have a 5000sqft lot (we wish it was bigger, like 65-8000sqft) and a massive 26x26 detached heated and insulated garage (park our 3 vehicles in there nicely). We live in a smaller city in Canada.

Honestly if I wasn't with her, I would probably move to a smaller house in a slightly rougher area (we live in a very family friendly area) but she works full time at a good job now so we are fine money wise.

Doing it alone in a big(ger) city is almost impossible unless you are a tradesperson, have a very good office job, or have a very high paying job. Our house in Vancouver would cost 6-750k which out outrageous! Sad part is, people are buying at those prices which means people will be fucked for awhile to come sadly. Hang tough and just keep saving is my only advice sadly :/

>>36268

Do you live alone? Can I move in?

Why not set up a site to find /abdl/ roommates? :^)

>>36294

A lot of (but not all) trailer parks are charging a Home Owner's Association fee, which does mitigate the low cost of ownership a good deal. That's unfortunate, too, since that's about the only real draw to a trailer park.

I live alone. I'm somewhat reclusive, so it's handy. Friends and family have tried getting me to let them move in since I have a pretty decent-sized place, but I'm not interested in having anyone else live with me right now.

>>36270

This sounds like it's going beyond the fetish. Anon wants to be able to have his own place, completely independent, and with his own privacy. Then he'll be able to enjoy things on his own terms. He would be able to indulge in DL with kind of freedom, but it would not be the only advantage.

I've lived at home for a long time and have had friends and relationships with people in similar situations. They don't want to live at home and they don't want to get a shared place. Everything is shared and very little is "yours".

Sorry, we decided that it was more important to stuff the apartment buildings with 3rd world families who vote for totalitarian political parties

>bunch idiot poors here

just sell some heroin, you dummies it's not hard jeez

one year of selling heroin and you can buy a house in whatever godforsaken shitburgh you live in with cash

You Americans are so dumb lol

You are all also sad and lonely.

With your culture it's all about, Money, Education, Work, God and the fucking President.

Why don't you fuckers just use your brains…oh, wait a moment; you Yanks are thick as shit!

A-hahahaha!

LOSERS!

>>36327

Go back to reddit and stop pretending to be English you dark skinned mongloid.

I'm skeptical of your budgeting anon. And in before "victim blaming" or some shit, it really makes little sense that you wouldn't be able to afford a modest 1-bedroom apartment in a small American city on a half-decent job.

1. When you say "not minimum wage", do you mean $8.25 instead of $7.25? That's still very little. What kind of jobs are you working? What industries are you in? Do you have a college degree? Ask yourself: are you being shafted by your employer? What is the average salary of someone in your job position?

2. What might you be doing wrong, budget-wise? How much do you spend on food/ alcohol a month? $250/ mo. will get you all you need grocery-wise with wiggle room for a few luxuries. Do you have a car? What's your insurance costs? Gas costs? Registration costs? Parking costs? Could you do without a car? Buy non-brand-name groceries in bulk, walk or take public transport, don't go to bars/ movies, etc. Do you have credit card debt? Are you paying off loans? What, if anything, is draining your money? Bad grocery habits (impulse buying, buying brand names, shopping without a list/ while hungry, buying lots of alcohol) can have a surprisingly large effect on your wallet. Same with entertainment- bars are money pits, same with movie theaters. Try free museums/ public concerts, parks, etc. Be a plebeian, save a buck.

3. Are you budgeting? Try keeping a spreadsheet of everything you buy over a week/ month. Your bank might even have e-reporting to help you with this. Essentially: monitor the things you pay for. Ask yourself if you can change your spending habits. If you have loans or other liabilities, go to your bank and ask for help with refinancing, or check if there's government assistance with debt for people of your income brackets. You can write off some loan-related expenses for tax purposes.

4. Check different regions of your city for different rent costs. Not saying you go to The Nether Realm but there might be apartments outside of the areas you've looked that suit your needs. Additionally, single-room apartments are sometimes targeted towards wealthier, older adults who value being alone but don't want to get a home. You might look for two-bedroom apartments that you can split with someone you don't mind so you have your own place. If you have a car consider commuting while living outside the city, but ask yourself if the money saved on rent will just be spent on gas/ commuter expenses instead. You may even consider leaving your city if you can find better-paying work elsewhere.

5. Just fuckin' wear your diapers bro. Diapers aren't noticeable 90% of the time unless you fuck up. Wear dark clothing to hide wet spots if that happens, don't wear skinny jeans/ low-cut shirts, etc. If you're not shitting yourself you can hide diapers easily. Plus: is it really your roommates' business? Your parents' business? Do either of them really care?

Not going to do a tl;dr because if you're not going to read my post then I can't be assed to care about you.

In life in general, you're on your own.

No-one gives a toss about your plight.

It's every man/woman for him/her self.

You've got to stop this 'Poor me' card. It's fucking retarded.

Grow a backbone for fuck sake!

The only way anything will change would be for everyone under 25 to commit suicide when they come to the realization they have no future. A big suicide epidemic would be the only thing to grab headlines so people will remember the forgotten generation.

It depends a lot on where you live. I grew up in rural Louisiana but I live in Atlanta now.

I make 60,000 a year but I'm paying a thousand a month for a tiny ass apartment to live by myself. My friends back home can afford to either own or rent houses for $40,000 a year.

I don't think I'll ever be able to live alone either. I've learned to accept this, and by extension realized I'll never be able to wear diapers. No use in crying about something that I can't control.

I live in a small town in the southeast. I am renting an apartment that is two stories (2 bedrooms, 1 bath, living room, kitchen). It is within 5 miles from a YMCA and a walmart, so it is not in the middle of nowhere. My rent is just $450 per month… and it is a month to month lease. No commitment. Also, it came fully furnished. There was an unfurnished unit available that would have been $400 per month.

And it is not like it is in the ghetto or something either. Not one black person in the entire apartment building.

>>36303

Man I would be the first on this site. I need a roommate bad and if I could reliably find an ABDL roommate then I'd be set. (Upstate NY if anyone is wondering)

tfw the golden age of high-tech industrial sexual degeneracy is also the golden age of importing an absurd amount of immigrants, while zoning nimbys & boomers stick around

>>36239 (OP)

>cant afford to live solo

while alot has to do with your current job, I would also ask why not cut out some luxuries that you normally considering your standard.

i.e. - internet or high speed at that, cell phone plans and move to lower ones, or spending habits on food (this is my personal problem that I noticed chunks my paycheck, I waste alot and shop when hungry)

but I mean it sucks having roomates I mean im 26 and moving to LA to live with my best bud while starting my career. But he respects me enough to not walk in on me and door locks are a thing.

I feel ya on living solo though, costs alot for non career individuals and even grads in lifetime positions paying back debts

heres the other side of the fence however, living alone does allow for wearing whenever but then it starts become not as enticing to wear since its more frequent, unless you planned to do all the time after work or some other kinda routine

>>38095

Are you guys hiring Supply Chain analysts? I wouldn't mind moving to a small town if the pay was the same as or more than what I'm making now, since the money could go so much farther out there.

>>36294

Better to just buy a trailer and a plot of land, to be quite honest, familia.

>>38108

Heh, that's amusing. I'm actually upstate NY myself. Not looking for a Roommate atm though.

>>36268

you may want to go to your city hall and have the building guys re-assess your property tax if it hasn't been redone in a while. out property tax was like $15,000 a year (still live with family) and we got it down to 10 and change because it hadn't been re-assessed in over 10 years and had just been going up and up and up without taking anything different into play with state laws or anything like that.

just my two cents.

>>38108

at your place, or someone else's?

you have to be specific about this sort of thing.

>>38617

My place, I have a second bedroom that needs filling

>>36241

I get pretty autistic when it comes to finances, so please either bear with me or skip this post entirely.

I just graduated and am working a temp job at a factory until my SO finishes her degree. I stand all day in steel-toed boots, get three ten minute breaks, and will very likely be switched out of this place after three months if I'm still here(It's "work to hire", but the hiring part has only happened a couple times) The work can be mentally and physically taxing, and I would imagine many of the jobs there will give the workers long-term health problems or disabilities(sore back, knee problems, hearing loss, random injuries from machines). If you get injured due to not paying attention, you may be fired on the spot. Additionally, I've been told by co-workers that the management will fire anyone with attitude problems in short order.

The job is minimum wage, but if you are never late that goes up to 10/hr. If you stay for six months, the rate could potentially go up to 11/hr, but will never go higher than that. It's supposed to be full time, but you can get sent home for the day(with two hour's pay) if you run out of work or can be issued unpaid leave for inventory and changeover weeks.

Let's just ignore the cost months at 10/hr = 19,200.

After the elevated taxes for singles that is ~ $16,320

Now let's check the expenditures.

Rent for your own apartment is no less than 8k/year here.

Food at $2.33 per meal is $2551.

Heat + electricity(90 each/month) = 2160

Car ~= $3600/year (googled rental price)

Average car insurance = 1800

Gas($25/week) = $1300

Total: 19,411

Balance: -3091 without mentioning healthcare, vision, dentistry, hygiene, clothing, or saving up a cushion for emergencies.

The only way OP can survive if he were in this situation is to walk everywhere. This would save about 6700 and leave him with about $3600 to spend on the aforementioned expenses I left out as well as a pack of diapers.

Other economies may vary, but in this corner of the US the American Dream looks more like hooverville than a white picket fence surrounding a stay at home wife and 2.5 kids.

>tfw got hired at a blue collar manufacturing plant

>making more money then I know what to do with

>not only going to move into a more private apartment, getting 2 bedrooms for the sole reason of turning it into a secret littles playroom

But like holy shit, everyone working inside has no idea how good they have it. In a few years when we're replaced by robots or something they'll probably vote at whoever says they can bring back this job. I'll enjoy my escape from retail wage slavery for the few years I got it.

Just became friends with two other abdls my age who are just three years younger than me.

both of them have divorced parents, so adding in my house that gives us access to five houses with potential privacy.

We are working out the logistics and brainstorming other possibilities.

>splitting rent on a $300/month apartment in the hood to use as a playspace whilst still usually living at home. If we could get two more people that'd be perfect. $60/month is nothing when you work full time and live with parents.

No need to worry about crime if we keep it empty when it's unoccupied. No need for utilities except some water and electricity if we really want it.

If we find a slumlord who rents using Airbnb, it'll be even easier because there's no paperwork, and we can pay cash.

If we have an actual lease, my main concern is someone dropping out of the arrangement and a single person getting stuck with the bill before we terminate it. However, I am willing to lose $240 if it comes to that.

>renting a dungeon a few weekends. Seems kind of pricey for the limited time that we would get. I'd only do that if we had a full blown munch going, with 8 people or more. We are considering the three of us hiring a professional babysitter for a night as a group, though.

>finding some single, wealthy, older ABDL who will let us play at his house.

There are plenty in the area. If I have two other abdl friends my age with me I'd be comfortable.

>>40077

Agreed. Let's not forget that automation creates some jobs, so the net losses aren't as bad as they seem. Also the jobs created by automation tend to be good jobs, that if kept in America, would enable many people to rise out of the wagecuck class. The jews act like its ok if the economy adds x number of service sector jobs in the USA for every factory job lost or whatever.

Seriously, a lot of people should quit their wagecuck jobs and go on welfare. I don't care if I have to pay for them. I just want them to realize that they are playing a game where they can't win, and would be better off selling meth or mooching off the system or both.

Use the classifieds. Don't talk to realtors; they're all kikes. Find a cheap place that someone is renting or needs to get rid of. It's out there if you start looking the right way instead of trusting (((established channels))).

>>40077

>implying that people are even letting trump do his job

>>41996

The Republicans control every level of federal government. If Trump can't do his job under these circumstances, either he's incompetent or the things he promised are impossible to achieve through conventional politics.

I warned you this would happen when you were all treating him like a fucking messiah. A Trump presidency was always going to be "status quo with a pinch of white nationalism", just like Obama's was "status quo with a pinch of feminism".

If you insist on playing in a rigged system, you don't get to complain when the result is shit.