>>903772 (OP)
All of them are honeypots.
Host your own and use i2p to connect.
Encrypt your shit so it doesn't matter.
https://check.messaging.one/list.php
https://xmpp.net/list.php
>>904518
It doesn't say anything about matrix. Matrix is much more harmful than XMPP now. Bloated server, bloated clients, nigger federation with identity server and and buggy MUCs