http://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2010/11/a_generational_pathology.html
Grandiosity versus narcissism.
http://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2007/01/borderline.html
Borderline as a complementary disorder to narcissism.
http://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2012/06/amy_schumer_offers_you_a_look.html
Narrative and Narcissism.
More on narrative (but not so much on narcissism): Joseph Campbell's "The Hero with a Thousand Faces" and "The Power of Myth". I think Chris likes Robert McKee's "Story" though.
https://web.archive.org/web/20160401122231/http://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2010/02/the_other_ego_epidemic.html
This one appears to be removed, hence the archived version. More on grandiosity vs narcissism.
http://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2006/12/if_this_is_one_of_the_sexiest.html
Self-image and narcissism.
http://web.archive.org/web/20131206162542/http://partialobjects.com/author/thelastpsychiatrist/
Chris also has some posts here.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6OpXVbTC-Z0
This video provides a brief overview on narcissism.
Finally, Anthony Giddens's "Modernity and Self-identity" touches upon some of the points made by hotelconcierge.