/nofap/ - Fappers Anonymous★

When ever I feel like it. If she's in the mood, and I am too, then that too.

I rarely want to get busy whenever I'm too tired from my day, but there are many other factors that get in the way (namely age and physical activity outside of work). There really can't be a specific amount one couple should follow given that.

I've been getting back into PE (penis enhancement) which I've done in and off for a few years now and that has made me want to have sex more often along with nofap as well. Making my wife work out and noticing her progress has also made me want to fuck more, too. A lot of stuff goes into answering your question!

>>13100 (OP)

Karezza style sex everyday if possible. Just stick your dick in and relax together breathing slow and deep. It should release huge amounts of oxytocin the more you both relax and make you both feel very bonded and satisfied.

Regular sex where orgasm for both of you and ejaculation for you should be no more than once per week even longer if you prefer. If your goal is a satisfying life long monogamous marriage it's crucial to master oxytocin release without orgasm and use orgasm as only an ocassional experience, so that it doesn't condition you both to seek for novelty and higher and higher highs on the hedonic treadmill.

>>13100 (OP)

It used to be that wives had a right of a certain amount of sex from their husbands every week, and it was considered sinful not to please your wife, not the other way around (related I believe, to the thought that women had basically as active a role in a child becoming, and that their ovulation was spontaneous and induced by orgasm). Whenever she ask for it really.