>>12602
I'm going to go ahead and assume you're not bait…
>I’m thinking I should throw out my vib friend. It hurts my husbands feelings that I get off easily to it. I don’t want to use it with him cause he throws off my concentration. Porn doesn’t help so I can stay away from that. With him it just takes so long.
You know you're making him feel bad with your actions, you feel guilty and it just seems wrong, something inside you is triggering those feelings so you must know deep down that sexual gratification is a high price you're paying for your husbands discomfort. Why not just talk to him about it?
>He doesn’t do it on his own hardly ever so I feel really guilty. What to do?
he's not looking to have sex with you, you mean? so his libido is not as high as yours probably… have you tried telling him how you feel?
>With him it just takes so long.
the thing is, after using those devices for too long you might have wired yourself to believe that sexual gratification is something that can be dealt with with a couple of AA batteries and 10 minutes of your time, that's where you're wrong, it should involve two people, an actual connection and caring for each other and you shouldn't have to rush things but enjoy the experience
>Thanks for the help. Because I’m female I’m a whore. No. I’m faithful to my husband even though kids half my age throw themselves at me and my bosses fall in love with me. I have a high sex drive im trying to alter to save my husband from pain. Thank you for showing your true nature.
The thing is, stating that, you're exposing simply the fact that you're displaying human decency by not giving into your lustfull desires and betraying husband and kids just because the father of your children can not make you cum as fast as a battery operated sex-toy… and you kind of expect praise for it, not so much as adivse…
If you really think that without swift sexual gratification your marriage can not go on, there's little we can do to help you I believe.
We aim to detach ourselves from uncontrollable sexual urges and rise to the challenge to better ourselves as human beings, focusing on family and personal growth.