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 No.12366

Well, this was the longest amount of time that I have lasted without PMO

But I failed miserably today.

I want your opinions: what do you do to stay away from the porn? How do you get to overcome the urges?

 No.12374

Blocking the porn makes avoiding it easier, obviously, but the best defense is having something else to do. Doing some placeholder activity is weaker than doing something that matters to you. This is why people always recommend working out. It's naturally and universally satisfying, that is, it matters to everyone who does it.

Also, self loathing is very dangerous. That shit can really fuel a base addiction. When you're depressed and see little worth in things, and especially in yourself, it's hard to find satisfaction in the finer things in life. So you're naturally inclined towards simpler pleasures if you hate / feel bad about yourself. And what's really bad is that porn is designed to make you feel impotent and pitiful so you'll come back for more. It's a vicious cycle.

This sounds like sheep advice, but fulfilling (realistic) expectations is a great way to escape that mindset. Of course, only if you're appreciated for it. Don't do what a cunt tells you. Good grades, traditional good looks (shave and shower, work out), saying "hello" and "thank you" loud and clear, sleeping at normie hours, stuff like that can help your self-esteem surprisingly much. Not making excuses and not lying are big things, too.


 No.12603

>urges

there's your problem

stop doing or thinking about whatever gives you urges in the first place


 No.12639

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Meditation on the pros of a pmo free life and praying (seriously - God is the anti-lust). Lust isn't difficult to beat if you focus on the true nature of things, but it takes focus.

Spend 30 minutes every day to just relax, meditate or just think about God. Its pays off. Specially after 10 or so days where you can sense the energy building in you, and instead of wasting it through pmo, you learn to sublimate that energy to better yourself and your life.




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