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a80536 (1) No.335133>>335142 >>335149 >>335151 >>335153 >>335161 >>335176 >>335246 >>335253 >>335261 >>335596 [Watch Thread][Show All Posts]

Question for dom-lovers, both Femdom and Maledom, what kinds of dom-behaviors are good, and to what extent can they go?

Basically; how hard-dom is too hard-dom?

669a11 (5) No.335135

For me, when pain comes in, or if the woman is not affectionate. No ball busting, no "you are a pathetic piece of shit". I want to feel like my partner is in control, but they still love me.

I want to be called cute, I want to be the little spoon, I want her to take initiative and push me down so she can straddle me when I don't expect it. I want feel like she loves me enough to be somewhat forceful about it.


939b28 (3) No.335137

Any physical pain that goes beyond spanking or rough sex is not okay. Any implication that she's a slut (not just being lewd but actually hungry for cocks), or worthless, or really anything that could genuinely hurt her feelings is also not okay.

Basically, while I say want to dom my waifu, what I mean is I want to pamper and spoil her with sporadic teasing.


2c0a45 (1) No.335140

<For me, when pain comes in, or if the woman is not affectionate. […] no "you are a pathetic piece of shit". I want to feel like my partner is in control, but they still love me.

This is what seperates the fetish people from the worthless. I am refering to all the negative stigma this kink has, wich can also be found here. If there is no trust and/or care between the two partners, femdom truly becomes worst fetish.


db03f1 (2) No.335142

>>335133 (OP)

Pain is a condiment, not necessary, but a welcome option used responsibly. The same goes for bondage, unless one or the other is particularly enthused about that. Lasting damage is not and never is acceptable. Either kind of Dom is an exercise in responsibility for that reason.


637539 (1) No.335149>>335152 >>335155

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>>335133 (OP)

Another important thing to me is what the reason is a monstergirl doms a guy. If it's purely to get off, then the story goes into the sin bin.

However, if it's courting as monsters only know how to, it's good in my book (if it doesn't have any of the other deal-breakers mentioned by other anons)

There for instance is this one story in which a hellwan tricks a guy into being chased into her own house and then tries to have her way with him. She however finds that he doesn't get aroused by the molestation, she instead starts cuddling with him. My point here is that the hellwan didn't just want to get off, she wanted a lover.


21e8ed (1) No.335150

The only domming I really want is that she lies down on top of me and cuddles me.


d191c8 (1) No.335151

>>335133 (OP)

Pic seems a-ok to me tbh


41b347 (3) No.335152>>335155

>>335149

That was a really good story, and I need to go read it again.


e4e6af (4) No.335153>>335160 >>335219

>>335133 (OP)

don't know where my lines are, but am able to tell when they are being crossed


cc1635 (3) No.335155>>335158 >>335162

>>335149

>>335152

Got a link to the story?


41b347 (3) No.335158>>335159 >>335162

>>335155

I tried finding it in three separate threads (greentext, hellwan, and wanwan) but was unable to find it.


cc1635 (3) No.335159>>335162

>>335158

You gave it a shot, at least. I appreciate it.


3e3017 (1) No.335160>>335163

>>335153

Is it just me or does he have a really long tongue?


96fcde (2) No.335161

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>>335133 (OP)

The best behaviour is aftercare. I wont have too many complaints unless its something I just cant stand but at least cuddling after is really important.


8d7590 (1) No.335162>>335164 >>335165

>>335158

>>335155

>>335159

Anon delivers --> >>329867


e4e6af (4) No.335163

>>335160

your tongue is a lot longer then you think it is


41b347 (3) No.335164

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>>335162

ty anon


cc1635 (3) No.335165

>>335162

Well, fuck. Thanks.


b95c0f (2) No.335176

>>335133 (OP)

Good behaviour is just being the boss, none of the fetish stuff like in pic related.

A good wife raises the kids and a good husband provides for his family, that's my idea of maledom

The reason why 3d is pd is because of the Fat dykess who've masculated women and de-masculate men, this has been to the detriment of both


91fa94 (1) No.335219>>335221

>>335153

Sauce? Not finding anything


e4e6af (4) No.335221

>>335219

the artist is dhibi


d6a9e9 (2) No.335238>>335239

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I want a manticore to gently tease me while I'm locked in her tail before hours of loving aftercare.


669a11 (5) No.335239>>335240

>>335238

The hell is with that last picture?


939b28 (3) No.335240>>335242

>>335239

Sometimes people draw Manticores with white hair instead of the ginger you usually see them with


669a11 (5) No.335242>>335244 >>335245 >>335271

>>335240

I'm not talking about the hair, I'm talking about that guy's face.


becad3 (1) No.335244

>>335242

Get this hothead outta here.


939b28 (3) No.335245

>>335242

Well he's cumming into a tailpussy, you can't really expect him to look calm and composed.


792d25 (1) No.335246>>335270

>>335133 (OP)

The best kind of dom is the one where you can turn the tables later


7f1073 (1) No.335253>>335270

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>>335133 (OP)

I'm a fan of gentle femdom and gentle maledom. I'm not particularly an M or an S, but I can find both roles appealing.

Hardcore bondage has never really done it for me. It isn't strictly a turn-off but it isn't a turn-on either. I can completely understand the whole "trust" aspect to it all, but a lot of bondage stuff seems to fetishize the gear/leather itself. I can find very simple bondage arousing, where one party loses their ability to move unless released by their partner, but anything more than that and it almost always stops being a turn-on. I don't find the gear itself appealing like so many others seem to, so what I like can be done with a single rope.

The borderline torture aspect to hardcore domming is absolutely a turn-off for me. It's not the pain itself that I have a problem with though. Pain absolutely can be a turn-on if applied in the correct way, and while I don't find causing pain to be a turn-on, I CAN be turned on by the pleasure the partner is receiving from it. I've never experienced pleasurable pain, but I absolutely am able to imagine finding it appealing.

I used to have a serious problem with humiliation, but I'm a bit more neutral to it nowadays.

I'm finding it a bit hard to really describe where the line is for me. So I'll try to say this next part as simply as I can. Both parties have to enjoy it for me to be into it, though I'm not TOO picky as long as it doesn't actively hurt anyone when they don't want to be hurt.

Like I said, I prefer gentle femdom and gentle maledom. Though maybe "gentle" is the wrong word here. Maybe calling it loving femdom/maledom would be better.

As a bit of sidenote, I've started to hate what I've been calling "cold dom" where it's drawn like it's two strangers instead of close lovers. For like 90% of "cold dom" stuff the only parts that actually touch are their genitals. They don't hug, cuddle, or really do anything like lovers except "insert penis moan moan cum, the end." They'll usually kiss but it's only like once or twice and it feels like the people who made it only added it because they had to.

I hate that shit. I NEED more lovey-dovey stuff where they show physical affection for each other.

Take the pic I've used for this. This is super arousing for me because of what it implies between her and whoever she's holding it open for. You almost never actually see it.


acc974 (1) No.335261

>>335133 (OP)

My opinion joins that of the majority: softcore is best core, followed closely by manticore, but that's a different story.

Both partners can be the dom, disconfort is fairly standard faire (being restrained, blindfolded or gagged), light pain can come into play (but lasting damage is an abomination), the vocal aspect is a little tricky to me, being a tease or pet playing sounds good, but being verbally abusive displeases me, I suppose it fits in the idea of staying affective towards your partner, finally consent, safewords, cuddles and aftercare are serious businesses that should be mentioned a little note often.

As a side note: there are a couple fictions out there who did a great job at explaining some of those points, honourable mention goes to Nana to Kaoru, a rom/com manga that is all about the relationship between Dom and Sub and the responsibilities that go with both sides as well as generous amount of knowledge about the gear, its history and care of it.

Did you know that there are specially crafted candles that melt at lower temperatures, so softcores can still add wax play to their kit without the burning, searing pain? Human creativity will forever amaze me.


d6a9e9 (2) No.335270

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>>335253

>a lot of bondage stuff seems to fetishize the gear/leather itself.

Totally agree, I honestly think most bondage gear looks unappealing.

>I've never experienced pleasurable pain, but I absolutely am able to imagine finding it appealing.

In my experience, there becomes a strange point where your senses sort of stop differentiating between pain and pleasure. It's weird, because while you know that, say, having nails dragged across your skin hurts, when it's combined with the passion of sex, you don't really distinguish it as such, you're just reacting without really thinking about it. It's difficult to explain.

>I used to have a serious problem with humiliation, but I'm a bit more neutral to it nowadays.

Teasing humiliation can be cute if done right, but anything further and no.

>For like 90% of "cold dom" stuff the only parts that actually touch are their genitals. They don't hug, cuddle, or really do anything like lovers except "insert penis moan moan cum, the end." They'll usually kiss but it's only like once or twice and it feels like the people who made it only added it because they had to.

Spoilered since this is more of a personal story rather that directly addressing your point: Probably the most intense memory I have is having my wrists belted together, with my (at the time) girlfriend riding me, one hand twisting my nipple and her tongue halfway down my throat. It's not because of the physical act, but because of the emotional bond and how two people can be that real with one another.

>>335246

I've always imagined that manticores get flustered very easily if you take charge. Maybe it doens't last, but you can still pull it off.


c05531 (1) No.335271

>>335242

Get this newfaggo outta here.


902958 (1) No.335538>>335563

Loving femdom, is a must. Don't like any of that degrading stuff. Don't really care for pain either.

Could deal with biting and nail scratches though. Sorta like she's marking me as hers.


96fcde (2) No.335563

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>>335538

>Waifu marks you as hers

That is some god tier taste my friend


669a11 (5) No.335572

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More proof that Mersharks are best for gentle doms and subs.


b95c0f (2) No.335596>>335601 >>335634 >>335635

>>335133 (OP)

>Femdom

Why would you want your waifu to be the man of the relationship that's how 3dpd are


669a11 (5) No.335601>>335632 >>335634

>>335596

That isn't how 3dpd are. A monster girl will hug you, and make you feel safe in her strong arms, and if anything bad happens she will be around to make sure all is well. She'll understand that you aren't perfect, and still cherish you. Maybe you aren't as strong as her, but that just makes her want to protect you more, and make sure nothing hurts you.

A 3dpd will yell at you for a tiny mistake. If you don't try to make as much or more than her, you are just a pathetic excuse for a man, and she could probably do better. If you show a sign of weakness to her in the hopes of gaining some comfort, she'll tell you to just suck it up.

A 3dpd is very lacking in the affection department.


fb21f4 (1) No.335632

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>>335601

So she's you're mommy gf?


db03f1 (2) No.335634

>>335596

>>335601

Is this a thread about dominating a monster/being dominated by a monster, or real women in America? Come on now.


e4e6af (4) No.335635

>>335596

any femdom 3DPD are capable of is harder femdom, where they just use for their ends, and throw you away like the trash you would be if you were okay with it.

3DPD aren't capable of the relationship /gfd/ people want, as they are hypergamous, and weaker and have less IQ points then 85% of men, and thus aren't capable of that kind of relationship.


2ddc0e (1) No.337889

I gotta say anything that causes lingering actual pain as opposed to momentary discomfort should be avoided during sex. Lasting harm is a no-no. That being said, being hugged from behind by a purring Manticore whispering in your ear that she's your kittycat just as much as you're her toy as she ever-so-gently massages you, sipping your spirit energy with her tail around your cock as you drip pre and she teases you endlessly as you both play vidya together, her tail moving your cock and subtly directing when and where to dodge or attack (or actively distracting you) sounds pretty nice.

Caveat: take what I say with a grain of salt because I'm simultaneously on several distinct levels of kinky, including a nerological thing where adrenaline makes me horny. I'm aroused by basically the entire spectrum of mind control and corruption as well as the more intimate side of femdom; from smug, loving, lascivious teasing to whispering in my ear "we're going to make each other cum soon" while nibbling it gently, and everything from Cheshire mind games, to Arachne ropework (sexual cannibalism is negligible in the wild, old studies were flawed), to the tender ministrations of a really perverted shy Ushi who likes slow sex and leglocking. Mutual protection and domination and sex and snug. One-sided power play feels kinda hollow to me, I like the exchange, the rapport, the well-timed handoff of dominance mid-fuck. I'm weird.




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