Finding a Wholesome Woman in the West

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Finding a Wholesome Woman in the West عبد الله 07/13/17 (Thu) 06:39:49 ec1edc No.22016

Assalamuialakum, Brothers,

I'm a Dutch muslim convert that's struggling to find a wholesome woman to marry according to the laws of the Qur'an, but in this western world all the women I seem to find are corrupted by western values, focussing on studies/materialistic things and letting go of islamic values.

This has been really heavy on my mind lately and so I thought I would ask you all for advice on the matter.

How can I find a wholesome muslim woman?

عبد الله 07/13/17 (Thu) 13:22:31 f51926 No.22023

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There's a lot of muslims and high population density in your country, bro.

You should go to an imam you trust and he'll help you meet a good sister, inshaAllah.

Also, there is a good marriage site called muslima.com. check it out.

عبد الله 07/13/17 (Thu) 13:24:31 f51926 No.22024

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and did you already ask your friends to help? It's real easy to get married Alhamdulillah. This shouldn't be much of an issue, bro.

I met my first wife through her brother and my second wife on muslima.

عبد الله 07/14/17 (Fri) 11:46:09 cde11c No.22049

>>22024

second wife much younger than your first?

I don't really get the motivation for polygamy, curious.

عبد الله 07/14/17 (Fri) 18:31:45 a97b3a No.22052

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>>22049

My first wife wanted me to marry her best friend. But for other reasons I divorced her. My current wife is my only wife.

عبد الله 07/15/17 (Sat) 07:54:24 cde11c No.22059

>>22052

Oh I see, thnx.

I find one girl is a big enough treasure headache to occupy myself with. :)

عبد الله 07/15/17 (Sat) 08:50:04 d527ce No.22060

>>22059

Yeah, i wasnt ready financially or psychologically for two wives. You have to spend equal money and time on each wife. It's not for the faint of heart.