>>20005
>1. How do I get to know people in a mosque community?
Just show up. If you go in during prayer, just wait quietly at the back until they're done. Then go start saying hello and shaking hands. Mention you want to convert and they'll help you out gladly.
>2. Would I be accepted as a white Muslim?
For the millionth time, yes.
>I get the feeling that Muslims hate whites.
And where do you get this feeling?
>3. Can I live life as a secret Muslim for a bit?
Unless your life is somehow in danger, then no.
>4. Is it possible to get married as a convert (or 'revert')?
Yes, of course.