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 No.73496

Is dating worth It?

I'm bi male, looking for a furry boyf, but I just got dumped, and its super discouraging.

I'm considering going for wizardhood, but I want to weigh my options first.

 No.73497

Having a bf is pretty nice owo

but how would you actively go out looking for one /)w(\


 No.73498

Alright, this is the best advice I can give you:

You need to build up assets and capital before you should consider dating.

If you're a 22 year old with 300 bucks in your bank account working at mcdonalds, you need to focus on paying your fucking rent, not guys.

1. You need to be in a position where you have at least an entry level of what you ACTUALLY want to do. You work as a Graphic Designer at a small sign shop, Nursing assistant, basic coding or data entry, etc.

2. You need to be able to regularly paying your fucking bills and rent, the optimal scenario is after your monthly bills, you're saving at least $300 a month, rather than treading the line and living paycheck to paycheck.

3. Now that you have competency with handling daily expenses, you can focus on furry interests. You clearly like some sort of aspect of the fandom, so pursue that. Get a custom fursuit, go to conventions, and start NETWORKING. The way you do this is by entering into a sub-category of the fandom and getting renown for that, such as the fursuit dance competition community, "cute" suiters, like Telephone, artists, novelists, musicians/DJs, etc.

4. 3-4 of the fuckers that you come across in one of these sub-communities are going to be interesting to you. PM them, or start up a conversation with them at a convention (there have been furries that have married each other and met one another simply by talking to each other 2-3 days straight at a convention they met at) and get to know them. You both have interests in common, on a base level it's furries, on a DEEPER level it could be dancing or illustration or novels (albeit these are with a furry lens/sub-category within the fandom) At this point you NEED to expand your understanding of the personality of the person your talking to. They like reading furry fanfiction? They're probably interested in Sci-Fi novels and Manga as well. Expand those points of interests. Their favorite genre of books is horror and they love werewolves? Congratulations, you hit the goldmine and you can watch horror movies together on the weekends, discuss nihilism philosophy, and fuck each other with some wicked BDSM harnesses while your boyfriend is wearing an edgy emo Gshep fursuit and fuck him while a vintage White Zombie record is blaring in the background.

MOST IMPORTANTLY, your dealing with a time frame of around 3-5 years, MINIMUM. This shit happens very slow, and is tediously nurtured and built up. You can't expect to go out tomorrow and not even have a con-badge and no one knows who the fuck you are and find some dude that is a carbon copy of all of your interests and find them the first day of the convention, this is a slow process that is a long-term payoff.

Good luck.


 No.73510

>>73498

This.

If you don't have your shit together, fix that first. Same goes for emotional stuff. If you hate yourself now, adding another person to the mix is not going to fix that.


 No.73511

>>73510

>>73498

Wow, that's actually some useful advice for once.

Thanks Anons.


 No.73517

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>>73498

>conventions

>fursuiting

Don't submit yourself to the autism, OP.

/trash/ on our weeb brother has got a gay furry zeemap on their /gfur/ general. Go there, find someone near you, contact them and hope for the best.


 No.73522

>>73517

Rather not use 4chan for my furry stuff, I actually made a furzu account, we'll see how that goes.


 No.73527

>>73522

ferzu is SJW cancer good luck


 No.73528

>>73522

>ferzu

be prepared to be corrected about 50 non-existent genders OP

Don't forget to type slowly too, if you type quicker then they do they'll see it as an act of aggression and be triggered


 No.73530

>>73528

Lol thanks for the warning anon.


 No.73531

>>73517

Tbh, 4chan could get a lot more traffic if they put the furry board back up.


 No.73559

>>73498

>start NETWORKING

Thanks, my dude, for confirming that the world is made by people who honestly believe that introverts don't deserve success or happiness. Literally everything you can gain in life is done so by shoving your nose firmly up someone's asshole.


 No.73574

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>>73559

>Thanks for confirming that I have to actually leave my house and do the unthinkable and talk to another human being, let alone drive to a location and engage in a date with them, this is the equivalent of shoving my mouth into their asshole you fucking bigot scum

Hey no problem man, i'm sure you can just dial 555-FUCKBOYS-R-US and they'll deliver your future lover right to your doorstep that possesses all the same interests as you do and will fuck you anytime you want and is also a 10/10 and immortal.

no really, give me a call for the wedding, I'll even pay for the airlift when they cut the hole through your apartment wall and helicopter you out; now, I know i'll be asking a lot for this next part, this is almost the emotional equivalent of a PTSD flashback from Vietnam, but you're going to have to move your mouth muscles and say "I do" at your wedding and actually engage in the most mundane form of human interaction on planet earth. I know this will be difficult, so i'll hold your hand while you say the big boy words, but we can get through this together. Now come upstairs, I made dinosaur shaped chicken tendies and chocolate milk, sweetie buns. and if your a really good boy then i'll get you an icecream from Dairy Queen.


 No.73576

Do you know that feel when you return from a sleepover-vacation after a week and then violate your friggin cock until you worry you overworked that poor little bastard?

I just had that.

I just wanted to leave that here.


 No.73578

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No. Dating isn't actually worth it and you're much better off being a wandering magi. You'll eventually learn how to tame wolves and fuck them. Then you do the werewolf ritual and become a literal creature of the night.


 No.73588

>>73574

>I live on my own, have a job and a car, a (small) social circle, and weigh about 140 pounds

I've never been mischaracterized this hard in my life, thanks. Got a good laugh out of you. This is what people like you think introverts are actually like. Thanks for CONFIRMING that everything I said is true. You're a big help!


 No.73593

>>73588

Dude you've been implicating this whole fucking thread that I "believe introverts don't deserve love and happiness in this world" so I see it obligatory to poke fun at you because you strike me as having the emotional intelligence of a fucking potato, but regardless I wouldn't have suggested you get tucked in by mommy at night if you HADN'T of started this whole fucking thing off by responding to my well intentioned advice by saying "NOH MY GOD, THIS IS LITERALLY LIKE TONGUING SOMEONES ASSHOLE" like a shrill harpy bitch that can't handle discussion without injecting cynicism and a disdain for life into every comment they make.

You have such a harsh fucking victim complex seeping through every letter that you type,

Maybe you can't get a date because you can't stop thinking the Extrovert Illuminati is out to ruin "the love and happiness" of your life because the only one doing that is you. Now you're going to make a new comment with even more sideways platitudes of "UGH, NOW YOU TRIPLE CONFIRMED THAT YOU DONT UNDERSTAND MY COLD, COMPLEX HEART, THE TENDER TOUCH OF THE INTROVERTED SOUL, yeah I was 16 once too, dipshit. I wouldn't want to hang out with you either if your still in the "woe is me" stage of cognitive development. Grow up and stick up for yourself. Tell me to fuck off and go join a social network, upload your creative pursuits, find someone that shares those interests, and plan a date or meetup. There are furry artists that are full-on social outcasts that can barely string a sentence together in public without looking at their shoestrings, and they found love by seeking out fellow furry artists to PM over the internet, collab on painting projects, and finally wind up the courage to take it to real life and move in together. Be creative, find alternative routes to building connections. Or you can yell at the mean internet man's text paragraphs some more and be alone forever, doesn't bother me.


 No.73710

>>73593

Wow, you sure are an angry and hateful little man, aren't you. Who pissed in your cereal this morning? And you claim I am the one with a victim complex? Funny. Yelling and screaming insults like you have to punch a hole in your screen twice before finishing your cute rant.

Your "well-intentioned advice" was inane self-help-book nonsense, complete with "just put yourself out there!". Networking is what salesmen do. That's a cold and disgusting spin to put on personal relationships. It's like you're playing some kind of game, trying to level-up your social power. I've known people like you; never had any time to spend with anyone because he was too busy talking to his 5000 "friends" on social media.


 No.73717

>>73710

>Accuses me of mischaracterizing who you are

>"I've known people like you; never had any time to spend with anyone because he was too busy talking to his 5000 "friends" on social media."

>you're trying to level-up your social power.

>on an anonymous imageboard

Alright lad, you have a good one, take care.


 No.73722

>>73717

>Tries to be the "bigger man" by bowing out of the argument

>But can't resist desperately clamoring for the last word anyway

Enjoy your day, good citizen.


 No.73834

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>>73722

dude i'm bowing out because you're the most paradoxical "I am literally doing what I am accusing you of" individual I've ever fucking talked to.

You 've accused me of mischaracterizing you by mischaracterizing me in the same reply you called me out for mischaracterization, said I was trying to get the last word in by trying to get the last word in; like holy fuck dude, sage goes in all fields, what a dumpster fire.




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