If someone approaches me looking to lewd and I'm not in the mood I offer them some JOI instead, people usually seem to like it, sometimes they like it too much and then don't wanna get into actual RP when I'm in the mood to play so that sorta sucks but meh.
Also, for some weird reason, I enjoy JOI more if it's with other dudes, I haven't had that many sessions where I told girls how to masturbate but I don't enjoy them as much personally. no homo