>>391518
i have spent intimate time with 16 people and only 2 of them I would do it again. I truly believe our culture is fucked in the sense of finding meaningful connection. everybody has their desires now, and since we are so used to receiving our desires (any food we want, any games we want, any porn we want) then why should my partner be any different?
I will receive the exact partner I want, they will bend to my will and be exactly who I need them to be and we'll be happy ever after~~
……. at least, that's my theory, anyway
I've spent years going to "the bars" going into tinder and grindr and okc. nothing works because we've quite literally fucked our idea of reality. Hedonism takes a front seat to meaningful connection.
i just can't imagine that using dating apps will bring us any closer to happiness, because dating apps are so far from reality that it is disturbing