Am I a bad person for being bummed my boyfriend has a smaller dick than me?I'm a total bottom, never wanted to top really but turns out my boyfriend's dick is like half my girth and a bit shorter.I feel bad for not really wanting to fuck because of it,

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Anonymous 03/19/18 (Mon) 18:03:14 No.375793

Am I a bad person for being bummed my boyfriend has a smaller dick than me?

I'm a total bottom, never wanted to top really but turns out my boyfriend's dick is like half my girth and a bit shorter.

I feel bad for not really wanting to fuck because of it, my smallest toy is even a bit bigger and I'm not really responsive to foreplay. Add to it we both have a really high body temperature and sex is just really unpleasant and I don't know how to bring it up with him.

The fuck do you do in this situation?

Anonymous 03/19/18 (Mon) 18:37:00 No.375796

>we both have a really high body temperature and sex is just really unpleasant

It's like that for a lot of people, including me. End up sweating like pigs in a sauna. My only advice is to either just put up with it, or crank the air conditioning to refrigerator-levels.

As for the rest, sex is different from using a toy. Being fucked by an actual dick is a lot more thrilling, if you care about the other person; it makes you clench down so it feels bigger than it is. Size isn't that important because there is so much more going on just what's in your ass.

Anonymous 03/19/18 (Mon) 18:43:07 No.375799

>>375796

Never really felt like that. We haven't done it much but for the most part its just been awkward and uncomfortable where I can barely feel a thing. Hell sometimes I can't even get hard, I've never cum from him either.

I feel bad about it because I love spending time and talking with him otherwise, but sex has always just been worse than masturbation.

Anonymous 03/20/18 (Tue) 00:44:15 No.375818

>>375799

Just seems to me like you're only concerned with yourself, and couldn't give the tiniest fuck about his feelings or pleasure in the matter. In that case, I suppose a toy would be better.

Anonymous 03/20/18 (Tue) 02:28:24 No.375819

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>>375818

I mean I try but he takes like an hour to cum no matter what we try. Granted we've only tried a handful of times but each time it hasn't been great. He's not come out and told me yet but I can tell its not exactly great for him either.

I don't want it to be like this, our relationship is good otherwise. If I knew how to fix it I would but I don't.

Most I know to do is to do what he likes. I can do most of it except he's way too into foreplay and that shit gives me anxiety attacks for some reason, then neither of us end up feeling good because he gets guilty about it so we're just at a mutual agreement to keep it short. Otherwise I try to fulfill his fetishes, do what he wants/likes, etc.

Anonymous 03/21/18 (Wed) 08:28:55 No.375901

>>375819

>he's way too into foreplay and that shit gives me anxiety attacks for some reason

Okay, seriously, WHAT the FUCK!?!

Anonymous 03/21/18 (Wed) 08:41:27 No.375902

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>>375819

>he's way too into foreplay and that shit gives me anxiety attacks for some reason

Are you ace or something?

Anonymous 03/21/18 (Wed) 12:04:11 No.375911

>bottom

>prioritizing his own desire to cum

You're doing it wrong.

>>375819

<he's way too into foreplay and that shit gives me anxiety attacks for some reason

YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG. OP do you actually like having sex?

Anonymous 03/21/18 (Wed) 15:02:30 No.375923

>>375911

I never said I prioritized it, just wish it would happen once in a while.

And I guess not if foreplay giving me anxiety is really that weird.

>>375902

Don't think so, I like porn. Just don't like that kind of affection. I want to like it, but its just a sort of reflex thing to panic and try to get it over with as quick as possible.

Anonymous 03/21/18 (Wed) 23:22:09 No.375960

>>375923

You need some serious psychological help. Not even kidding. You get panic attacks during sex, and then you wonder why you don't enjoy sex? That's some pretty massive self-delusion, there.

Anonymous 03/22/18 (Thu) 00:05:16 No.375964

>>375960

Not sex, just foreplay. Its all the touching that does it.

Anonymous 03/22/18 (Thu) 13:32:52 No.375999

>>375911

>>bottom

>>prioritizing his own desire to cum

Obviously you've never been power bottomed, which is quite nice every once in a while.

Anonymous 03/22/18 (Thu) 15:57:31 No.376006

>>375964

i agree with an earlier anon, do you maybe have some sort of psychological issue that you need to take up with a psychiatrist or something?

Unless you are really over exaggerating

Anonymous 03/23/18 (Fri) 00:23:04 No.376034

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>>376006

I don't think so. Not really exaggerating, I'm not exactly passing out but its the kind of thing that makes you think every possible bad thing is gonna happen until you're sweaty and in my case shaking. Not to mention general discomfort and feeling like I'm gonna throw up from it.

Basically the same feeling as when people single me out in a crowd or force me into shit like roller coasters.