/cuteboys/ - Boypussy

>>368937

>hi umm.. I wanna talk to you alone

>okay

>haha i was uncomfortable being in that crowd

>haha

>straight friend, i was wondering umm…

>yeah

>a-are you in a um.. in a relationship right now?

>no/yes

>okay good. do you wanna go out somewhere?

>yeah sure

>relationship

>>368938

Whenever we hang out it's usually alone.almost all the time. He isn't in a relationship. But he just ended one a few weeks ago..

Thing is we usually just hang in the room. At times road trips randomly. But cast majority of the time it's in his room! I throw out some hints. Just not sure if he thinks I'm joking or he is considering it. I've asked if he was bi he just laughed and said fuck you. I said ooo please. He just laughed.

>>368939

proptip: alcohol

>>368946

He is one of the few people that does not drink alcohol. Like ever!

>>368970

how the hell do you sleep in the same bed and not be in a relationship. this thread is a joke. you're obviously not serious about it, get serious and tell him you're lonely and want a more intimate relationship with someone. open up to him without asking him to commit, he'll decide himself if he can fill that role. otherwise get new friends/boyfriends.

i'm totally not jealous of your situation or anything, baka

>>368970

Alone he will doesn't drinm but with you he will. Just take something without strong tastes (if beer only flavored, don't buy vodka, mead can be okay, wine too)

>>368981

Bro what? I've slept in same bed w/ straight guys plenty of times. Go on a trip and not enough beds… who is so uncomfortable with the same sex they would rather sleep on the floor?

So update:

>>Hanging out with him just talking about anime.

>>Decide hey you know what I'm going to try hinting again.

>>Decide to say he I was watch some reading a doujin

>>Wasn't till I was half way through I realized wtf I was reading.

>>He asked what

>>It's called "a boy who lost himself to drugs."

>>It's about a trap.

>>He laughs and says we all have done that.

>>Part of the right of passage to reading doujins you' re bound to read something that'll surprises you.

>> Well he is right.

>> Begin to tell I had a dream about it without the drugs and I was the boy.

>> He just laughs and says well that's gay.

>> Respond and say I sometimes dream about that shit.

>> He just smiles and says it happens I'm never the bottom in my dream.

>> His brother walks in and that was it.

Think I made some progress

>>368981

You never sleeped on the same bed with a friend?

>>369017

Just straight up ask him.

>>369017

w-webb of you choking on him?

>>369110 oh if I was able to. That would be awesome

>>369069 that's the thing. I don't want to just freak him out. If you guys have any hints or better way of doing it the yes I will take suggestions.

Idk why but it was easier when I was in that confusion of being bi. Where I was able to walk up to women no matter what and just get what I wanted. But this is someone I known for over ten years. If all goes wrong the whole ten years can be destroyed.

>>369032

Yeah nothing as of yet. But we are seeing star wars on Friday. He already seen but wants me to experience the disappointment too lol. I will not pass this up hahah

Hey so a fucking update. For last Friday. We saw the movie. As if I liked it or not. I'll save my opinion. My movie theater has similar to lazy boys recliners. Pretty awesome. When selecting seats I chose the top left corner of the theater. Two seats and the middle rest lifts up. I chose the seat on the right he of course chose the seat to the left. I did this because he usually leans to the left arm rest. So I can lift the middle rest so I can put my feet up. So I did just that. We laughed about it. And started talking about how them using the force while having sex if they weren't performing well. Like massage the prostate to stay hard and cum harder with the force. He put the arm rest down.

Covers puts his hand on his lap like he is covering his erection. I lean over the rest and look at his erection and say

>> Oh dang that's pretty big

He smiles and says that what they say.

>> I ask him how big is it. And if he manscapes

>> Freaking out hardcore.

>> Wtf did I ask.

>> Tells me he is above average.

>> Holy shit this is it I can make my move

>> Proceeds to tell story about how there is a girl that comes back for it

>> Told him I would too haha

>> According to the doujinshi we read men do it better

>>WTF DID I JUST SAY AGAIN!!

Then all he does is smiles and says well I need a refill

Grabs my drink to refill too.

I'm sitting there by myself reflecting on some stupid shit.

When I hit on girls I was way more smoother.

He comes back sits down and tells me the conversation we just had was crazy. But will take it into consideration.

We finish the movie go back to his place and just hang out. Watch a few shows. Play the Monster Hunter world beta. Then I left. There was no tension or anything. It was just normal.

The hell does that mean?

I think I failed miserably. Should I press it or just wait until he makes a move. Not sure. Any suggestions? Btw he hasn't talked to since Friday. But we are linking up for the beta when I'm off work apparently

In short, your both idiots. Your both dropping hints at each other with noone willing to push that final mile. If your going to continue this pattern this time next year you'll still be hinting at each other but the hints will be getting more and more extreme and you'll end up making things unconfortable betwenn you too.

What you need todo is be direct, just tell him how you feel and what you want. You've layed the groundwork he knows what you want you just need to make it clear, no more hints.

This way you will get your answer. From what you said the most likly outcome will be you get what you want (as long as you dont do it creepily).

Simplist way todo it is next time your alone just come out to him, something along the lines of "I haven't told anyone else yet but i wanted you to know im gay." Just leave it there most likley he will ask questions and you can take it form there. If his reply is something like "So" or "i know" then goto the i like you stuff, otherwise let the conversation take you there.

Good luck

>>368937

>Traps aren't gay

Come on now you know that's a lie.

>even slept on the same bed

Usually you don't do that with just any friend and even then you wouldn't be doing that on a regular basis even with a best friend- it seems like you already have something going on with that.

>>369519

You really need to think about if he is the type of guy to go for another guy- feminine or not. It does sound like he's either ridiculously "no homo bro"-tier or that he's just hinting too hard. Again though make sure he would be into dating a guy for a long term relationship.

>>369758

what bong anon said sounds pretty good.

>>369519

what about introducing a similar situation another time. Then lean to him. Or in case he's covering something and you asked for the size (like "how big this time?") hold your hand above ask "may I" or just watch his reaction…

In general I would go slowly more physical.

nice / cute thread / story btw. I like. I'll follow

>>369933

If it were me in this anon's shoes, I would probably follow >>369758 's advice. I think consummating a relationship in that way is too quick, especially if they've been sidestepping a romantic relationship this entire time.

>>369017

>>>Decide to say he I was watch some reading a doujin

nigger what ????????????????????????

>>369758

good and bad advice. they've been friends for 10 years so if OP goes all "LET ME SUCK YOU" or "FUCK ME" on him, he'll lose a close friend

the hinting business is pretty lame. also OP is a bottom whereas the other guy is a dominant alpha, so I guess OP needs to wait for that guy to make a move first

OP just spend the night together and have some drinks, or better yet, find someone who is actually gay or bi, rather than trying to seduce a 10-year-friend straight

>>369974

To be fair the "LET ME SUCK YOU" and "FUCK ME" approach is what i specifically warned against. Notice the bit about "unless you do it creepily" which those two example would come under.

My advice was slow but direct. "I havent told anyone else yet but im gay" then letting his reaction to that dictate what happens next

Ok guys I decided to go with the take it slow route. Hanging out more. Talks are the usual same stuff anime, life, work. Started this thing about asking about his day. Not everyday. But everyother. With a simple question like how was work, anything new happen, etc. You at least show that I care. And side with him as much as I can. I have noticed that he is more happy and smiling more and more. Just recently I told him about this new recipe I learned. And he has to try it. So I cooked it for him and it was awesome. Figured subtle things like this would work. Let him know I genuinely care.

Well…. Just yesterday we were talking and we play gay chicken….. Yeah just asking for it right we always pull away you know. So he grabbed my hand and slowly pulled it towards him. I looked him in the eye smiling. And he pulled away. Like wtf. How old are you. So I told him and I was going to grab his dick one of these days. He just looks at me and goes what?! He then says we aren't playing that game again and he laughs. Like wtf. So I'm still working on just being there all hope is pretty much fading. One of those I don't want to but it might be for the best