Since spring 2016 I'm using Gender 2BU, which is a modified fragrance originally by calvin klein. It's specifically designed to smell androgynous, for femboys and early/pre-transition tgurls. Very successful in dating world, and it's also good for my job as a secretary at materials sales firm. A lot of my coworkers commented on how nice it was, even my boss who's usually a huge macho asshole told me it smelled cute.
Prior to 2BU I used a custom mixture of Anais Anais and Armani for a year or so, but that was too strong. Mostly I used it once or twice, rest of the time I borrowed from my girl friend who had really good taste and had cool ones like Kiss for her and Cardinal.
The best most femmiest scent I ever used was molecule 01, which enhances your natural fragrance. I used this in my late teens, until about 2015 when I dropped out of college and started work I had moved out of my college apartment and forgot the bottle. My friday and weekend evening routine used to be shaving everywhere, bathing+hair, enema for full cleanliness, lubing, and playing with my butt until I precummed. Then I'd collect the precum on a thin plastic sheet, and rub it in key spots, like a little on my nose, collarbone, nipples, and shoulders. I would then apply molecule 01, which mixed with my precum smelled heavenly. Some nice clothing, light makeup to enhance my eyes, and after a night of clubbing I would always come home with a 9/10 hunk (I'm a 6-7/10) and get my brains fucked out. Anyway I lost the original bottle of molecule 01 a few years ago, and haven't been able to find an equivalent again. Every "molecule 01" I order from the internet seems to be bootleg, doesn't have the same effect. Maybe they changed something in production.
I don't know if this helps you OP, good luck and I hope you find your scent.