/cuteboys/ - Boypussy

Maybe try bringing up in conversation if he's in a relationship or that if he's actually into dudes and then go from there. Ask what type of guys he's into and if he thinks you're at all cute or good looking.

I think a little probing for information is necessary before you consider asking him out. For one is he gay? It seems fair to say on a surface level, but if he’s leaning hard left, then being effimine might just be a way of expressing his appearance and not an overtly sexual way. Also it’s be worth figuring out what his relationship status is if he is gay, those can be surprisingly diffuclt things to not only figure out, speaking from experience. This can all be figured out by seeing how receptive he is to your flirting of corse.

give him the old lickaroo

in the ass

>>363471

OP here. He's definitely gay. I'm just super worried that he might already be taken.

>>363463

Wouldn't that be kinda weird? I already have an idea for a 1-on-1 conversation if i can manage to get him alone.

>me: hey, can we talk?

>him: H-hi.

>me: how's it been?

>him: it's been good (insert witty/autistic remark here)

>me: great to hear

*awkward pause*

>me: i wanted to ask you something

>him: go ahead

>me: A-are you in.. Um.. Are you in a relationship right now?

>him: (hopefully he says no, if he says yes i'll just tell him i'm available and give him some way to communicate, would e-mail be good?)

>me: O-ok.. Are you.. Looking for one?

>him: (hopefully he says yes, if not same deal as last time)

>me: ok.. Well, I was thinking that maybe we could go somewhere together? outside of work i mean.

After that the dating and homo butt stuff happens. Is this good? Does flirting work any better? How do i flirt with a guy without embarrassing myself? I've been the subject of a lot of flirting myself (guys slapping my ass, trying to grab my hand, telling me i look good etc.) and i could never really reciprocate it- i never found a chance to tell them i wanted anything more, it was all really awkward and they never told me about meeting up outside of work / school so nothing went anywhere ever. Am i right to assume flirting doesn't work very well and i should just be up-front about it?

>>363488

I simply advised you started flirting because your original post made it seem like you weren’t sure he was into you. Flirting is usually used as a means of testing the waters, people in a relationship don’t flirt so much as tease one another. The reason why those guys probably never followed up I’d like you said, you weren’t sure how react and as such probably, unintentional as it may be, gave them the idea that you weren’t interested. Either way you seemed to have thought this through, I’d say your one-on-one approach should work fine if you guys are close enough. Best of luck to you anon! This all sounds cute af.

>>363494

Thanks anon. i'm really nervous. I'll have to ask around to see if he's taken, and if everyone says he isn't then i'll ask him myself. Next time i see him i'm going to try getting him alone. Still have no idea how to get into contact with him outside of work though. Do you think it'll work out? Presumably he's a bottom and really subby, and i'm a dominant switch but i have no idea how well i can fill that role for him ;-;

>>363497

>dominant switch

What do you mean youre worried about not fufulling his hopes? What are your limits as a switch? Are you worried he might be to kinky? Also I wouldn’t worry too much about not seing him much outside of the shop, it’ll be a comfortable environment for the both of yo, dates are for shaking things up and seeing how things go.

>>363501

I'm just worried about whether or not i'll be "dominant" enough for him, grantsd he wants that in a bf. I'm kind of feminine too but i mask it a little to fit in.

>>363504

Ok, I getcha, as one myself I can tell you that it’s definitinly an akward thing to adjust to, I know I had trouble being mean and rough with my first partner, but by the time you guys should be rolling around to kinky sex, you guys should close enough, that there will be a grace period as you ease into things. Plus if he’s a keeper, he’ll be willing to show the ropes

>>363525

>>believe in white genocide

>what the fuck did he mean by this

S-shut up! I know it sounds dumb but i do! It's one of the biggest reasons why i'm closeted but i guess being gay isn't such a big deal otherwise

>>363454

>he always carries a whip on his hip

Am I the only one not understanding this? He carriers a literal whip on his person in public?? Is that even a thing?

>>363555

Kek I don't understand either. That's like some highschool tier shit that I would have bullied you for.

>>363555

Yeah he literally does lmao. The absurdity is why i mentioned it in the first place. It's not a big one, just some kind of short multi-strand thingy. It's probably a whip. Kinda weird but he's goth so idk if that's normal and it's just some kind of subculture thing or whatever.

I'm gonna ask him out the day after tomorrow. Maybe tomorrow if it seems like a good time. I-i'm so nervous! It's the first time i ask a boy out… I hope he doesn't mind everything wrong with me. Is this how it normally feels? I'm 100% sure he's gay (he wears nail polish). What do i do if it turns out he's in a relationship? He's the cutest guy around, i wonder if any other gays got to him first. I'm so stressed out! Hold me anons

>>363680

He's way better looking than those pictures though. I understand it's a risk. If it doesn't work out, whatever. I just can't stand not doing anything about these feelings i have.

Shit. What do i do if he says yes? Should i come over to his place for a date? How do i tell him i'm in the closet? I don't have much in the way of money right now, i'm not sure i could bear to take him out to a cheap restaurant for a date. Would it be weird if i asked to come to his place (not implying i want sex)? What if we just walked around town for a while? Help

>>363695

You don't need to make any formalized date plans, that shit's for chicks man. When you're dating another guy it's just like having a really good best friend that you can fuck whenever and wherever.

>>363675

>>363701

>>363695

First and foremost, if he’s already in a relationship there’s no reason you guys can’t still be friends, it’ll help a ton in meeting other gay guys. As for what happens when he says yes, well it depends on how you ask him out I guess. If you tell you like him and he likes you back, that’s the prime time to start poking around about interests, and from there you find something you either both like or see if there’s something you’re both interested in trying out. Wish you the best though anon! and if you strike out don’t let it get to you too much, speaking from experience, it does get easier after the first time, even if it doesn’t feel like it.

>>363701

Well i want to be able to do something with him. I'm so stressed out right now, but i guess if dates are out of the picture i feel a little better. We could just hang out somewhere. What would be a good place to hang out? Should i bring anything? I know this particular qt goth boy likes rock music (i don't quite share his taste in music). What would someone like that do for fun? I have no idea.

>>363703

Ok.. So i ask him out, get a way to contact him outside of work, then see what he's into and if it matches my interests then work with that. I want our first time hanging out to be kind of exciting. What would be exciting and cheap and still somewhat romantic?

>>363705

Kinda of hard to answer without really knowing much about him. You guys should be able to just sort of talk it out. I wouldn't put to much effort into the first date, I should be something simple enough that you guys can still talk and get to know each other. Like a lunch date in downtown and walk around stores and window shop, a hike if he's outdoorsy. Something lowkey and noncommittal for lack of a better word.

>>363454

That boy sounds cringe as hell. Just your description of the way he dresses and acts should be the sign to turn around and walk away. The fact that he's a leftist makes him worthless.

>>363718

I don't know… I like the way he dresses and acts, but the fact that he holds dubious political views makes it weird. This isn't the first time i've liked someone who wasn't good for me though, although it is the first time i actually considered dating someond like that. Maybe he's a rational guy and can be convinced that liberalism is unhealthy and gross?

>>363723

For real, your best chance is just to put politics aside. If you try to change his political views, now or later, he might resent you for it and it could cause a fracture. If you wanna go for the guy, either don't get into political debates with him, or make sure they stay civil and don't act like you hate his views towards him.

>>363758

OP here. I'm not too worried about politics, now i'm just worried he's out of my league. I asked around at work and didn't get any information from it and from what i already know he's just generally way too "popular" with everyone. On top of that, he's really good at his job and i'm kinda shit at it. I feel like it'd never work and i feel like such a loser rn on top of that. Sorry for blogpost thread; i just need some advice tbh.

>>363723

Nah it's stupid as fuck. You're convinced you're in love with someone you literally don't even know. Do you not have any idea how stupid that is?

>>363797

I don't know… I feel so confused right now. Maybe i'm overreacting? I've never talked aboout a guy like this before though.. I hope these feelings aren't real, because if it is then i'm not sure i can take it.

>>363858

WTF i love normalfags now

OP here. Inactivity has made the horrible depression come back. What's worse is that the guy in my story winked at me the other day! I don't have any idea what that is supposed to mean. Anyways, now i'm alone and depressed. RIP me ;-;

>>366276

Cry IRL when you're near them, and if they ask what's wrong, confess? Be candid and forthright?

>>366276

>he winked at me

Do you know what that means? Why would you be depressed after a qt boy winks at you? It means he likes you or he's into you. I hope you smiled back you autist

>>366611

I think i smiled back at him. I'm not entirely sure though.

>>366276

>winked at you

Uhhh, I think it's safe to say he likes you anon, NOBODY winks at someone unless they're interested in you. Don't be autistic and reciprocate with similar friendly gestures.