/cuteboys/ - Boypussy

>>358442

You need to talk with him about it not us, maybe he's tried or has something important that's worrying him but you need to get him to tell you why all we can do is guess which isn't much help.

>>358444

I've tried talking to him but he just seems so distant lately like, because he works I'm usually doing all the cooking/cleaning and I'd do it at my own pace

we'd chill on the couch, eat dinner watching TV then once what we are watching is over I'd go clean up the kitchen and I've always kept the house clean, but now as soon as dinners done he'd say "dishes now" and sends me off to do chores as much as possible so I can't cuddle him as much, whenever I try talk to him he's got headphones on or he just leaves the house

>>358450

he's only been like that the last couple weeks :( before that he was always letting me cuddle him and he'd take me out to do things like movies/restaurants and always kiss me

it's a really recent thing, tbh I might sound like a slut but I think he needs sex but is refusing it (I know I need it kek ;-;)

>>358452

It sounds like he's avoiding you. That's… disconcerting, and you should really sit him down and talk about this with him.

>>358454

I've been trying hard to do that for a while like, he knows I have really bad anxiety to the point I have major panic attacks when I'm in public without him (even going to uni is a mission for me I probably sound hardcore autistic)

which is why he used to be really supportive and caring but now it seems like he's making me anxious on purpose to avoid talking to me, plus the lack of sex is honestly making me panic more often

>>358442

Idk he's probably also tired of sex.

I know when I was turning 24 I was bored of it.

>>358458

then I guess it's just something I'll have to adjust to and get used to :/

>>358458

>>358459

Being tired of sex isn't really an excuse to straight up avoid your loved one and act like a massive buttmunch, though. Seriously, if you care about your relationship with him, you gotta just steel yourself and sit him the fuck down.

>>358460

I'll try that when he gets home from work like, still probably sounding autist because he works and I don't but sometimes I feel like he doesn't know how much I try for him

like today in between doing 2 assessments, trying to catch up with rick and morty (he refuses to watch it so I watch it when he's at work kek) I'm also cleaning the whole house for him and baking him cookies so he has something nice to come home to :/

>>358442

prepare for breakup

he will do it in 1 to 2 months

>>358467

I was the same way to my bf. Just kinda avoided talking to him and we split. Came out to visit a few months later and we ended up getting back together. I regret doing that every time it enters my mind

>>358487

I really hope the case isn't a break up

like, for months now, even a week ago he's been going on about wanting to marry me

but idk, maybe he's pissed off because he's decided that's not what he wants

or he's trying to find a way to propose and feels awkward about it?

I really don't know what's gotten into him

>>358442

Something happened at work and or he's working too much. I'd quit my job if i did 5 days work. 4 days work and 3 days break is what keeps me going. I may seem weak. But 8 hours of my life for 5 days straight kills me. Leaves me no motivation for anything. And when the job get's shittier or is already shit you start becoming meaner and you start to hate everyone.

Tbh if someone did something like that to me like put their headphones on or play their computer i'd pull the power/Internet/headphones out/off and 'talk' to him in an angrily way. There are so many guys that do it and i've witnessed it enough, not from my experience. Just being in other peoples company.

Honestly, all you need to do is talk to him. Though… dont, aggravate him too much. Unfortunate you will have to get the answer out of him even if it leads to shouting. He could be with someone else. It could literally be anything. Though i probs shouldn't tell you that seeing as you are prone to anxiety attacks. Though it's better to go in knowing that anything can happen

>>358504

yeah working full time at a shit job left me literally waking up and wondering what I was even doing with my life. There were multiple times I'd come home and think "Homelessness probably isn't that bad…" It's even worse when your whole family is "proud of you" but you're miserable and contemplating actual suicide.

>>358504

I understand that working a lot could be the problem but there has been so many times I've offered to get a job for a few days a week so he doesn't have to work as much and he always tells me not to because he knows I'll just have constant panic attacks (since even going to uni, 50% of the time I just hide in bed and don't go now days, which he said will just get me fired in the working world)

I've thought, maybe he's cheating but whenever I've started sucking him off and he's told me to stop like, his dick didn't taste like he's been cheating if that makes sense (he's purely a top) and yea, I don't do yelling well, I mainly like to just do as I'm told and keep everyone happy

>>358505

yea, my mother says she's proud of me for studying at uni, I don't have the guts to tell her I'm absolutely failing and hate it, my bf wants me to quit and go on to something to do with art or music since he knows that will make me happy but I'm kinda just sticking it out till the end of the year

>>358506

you could work remotely as long as you're semi competent and not too much of a lazy piece of shit. i know that anxiety feel but working from home makes it more manageable for me at least. hopefully things work out between you two. what kind of art are you into, anon?

>>358517

mainly cartooning/comic design but I'd love a job in something like graphic design, what I do is mostly shit anyway though

like, I'd love a job like paper delivery, since it's relaxing and I could work when everyones at school/work so almost no human contact+relaxing walks

but sadly that generally pays less than $20 a week here

>>358596

>what I do is mostly shit anyway though

everyone starts out that way, it's a completely solvable problem. you can get to an employable skill level in a year or two if you just grind through all the fundamental stuff. besides that there are tons of semi-neet jobs out there and there's always demand for copywriters, flatters, etc

i don't have any good relationship advice b/c i'm an autismo who fucked up things pretty badly with the last person i really cared about. but hopefully some of this stuff will be useful to you if work turns out to be the source of the issue. good luck anon

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>>358661

I guess I am a bit of a drama queen but I was miserable pretty much everyday until I found something that didn't consume my soul everyday.

OP, the solution in my mind is to let him known how you feel and really express your emotion. I'm no expert on the subject, but the idea of a loved one getting teary eyed sounds like it could potentially muster something within them. However, it must be authentic.

Some people need distance from constant routine after a time and get sick of humoring cuddly, dramatic types. Sure, the way he talks is dickish but I bet he also knows it works.

Just talk, and not be a drama whore about it. No need for it to be an argument in any way. If he just doesn't want to cuddle or fuck then accept it. There will be times when he wants to and times when he doesn't. Don't put all of your life and enjoyment on this one person.

I've had a woman living with me for almost two years and we went through the same shit. It gets EXTREMELY tedious after a year. If you want proof leave him completely alone for a week, no unnecessary engagement, then see if he comes to you with a different tune.

>>358452

>always letting me cuddle him and he'd take me out to do things like movies/restaurants and always always always

Give the man a break.

How's it going with him OP?

>>359171

probs necked