No.347604
what was the single moment in your life where you officially swore off women?
let me hear those life stories /cb/
in my case i guess its like this
>be a decent womanizer
>start to realize how exhausting it is having to constantly swap out women who don't put out for those who do
>decide i'd just like to settle down with a bro and have a full on homo bromance with the butt sex included
>manage to completely rewire my sexual preference circuit board within a few years
>still no bro mechanic bf to help me work on my corvette project car and shower together with afterwards
No.347989
>>347604
plz be in Georgia
No.347991
I thought I was completely incapable of love and was totally okay with being alone forever because I was never interested in women. Then I met the perfect boy, fell in love, and realized that I actually CAN feel love and also that I'm a faggot. Then he dropped me like I was never worth anything to him and said he never cared about me and I've been trying to fill that massive void this left since I was 16.
No.348016
>>347989
Of course i'm not in GA, im in NY anon!
>>347991
how long were you together for?
>tfw i was 16 10 years ago
No.348020
>>348016
Probably only like 6 months. I've repressed a lot of it.
No.348022
>>347604
>corvette
unless its sawblades or pre-dual head lights C1, its trash
No.348024
>>348022
its a 72 c3 im sorry we dont have the same taste in chevy sports cars
No.348025
>>348022
C3 and C4 are best corvettes, though. C1 is good for nothing other than looking at. I have no idea what you mean by sawblades.
No.348027
>>348025
i think he's talking about the stock wheels on the c4
c1s are actually pretty good though, i personally prefer the convertible over the hard top but they arent bad at all
No.348041
>>348016
I'm not a mechanic, but I am in NY- are you upstate?
No.348070
>>348024
at least put an ls3 in it
No.348072
>>348025
> good for nothing other than looking at.
yeah, its a corvette
theyre thrown together by people living in kentucky, theyyre nothing but glorified highway cruisers
the ones that actually perform are too expensive
No.348091
still figuring out my sexuality and definitely homo to a degree. definitely because men are more independent/reliable which is indispensable in any relationship. most women just want to be watched over and fed attention, plus they're less likely to contribute financially. i want someone who can take criticism and actually care to improve themselves, else i see my quality of life with them slowly rolling downhill.
at most some women enjoy being teased but beyond that, they rarely try to figure anything out for themselves. very draining. best conversations i've had in my life were all with men, that says most of it tbh.
No.348121
When I got my trap BF 2 years ago I truly saw how shit women are. We are still together and things are only getting better.
No.348124
>>348091
I guess I'm on the same track as you.
The majority of the modern female seems like it's a hell of a lot more trouble than it's worth. With things like being unable to have disagreements and the whole "independent" attitude they get fed constantly.
There is also the part where she can file for divorce out of the blue and take all your stuff because they have the law on their side.
It's usually "innocent until proven guilty", but with women it's "guilty even if you have proven yourself to be innocent".
No.348134
>>347604
I'm a virgin. Women never liked me because I'm too feminine. But men don't like me either. I'm not sure what I am, probably just lonely.
No.348136
>>347604
I became a /fit/izen
No.348192
>>348124
>>348091
You both sound like people who don't know any women. There are plenty of sane women if you actually go outside.
>There is also the part where she can file for divorce out of the blue and take all your stuff because they have the law on their side.
It's called a prenup.
No.348197
>>348192
Not either of them but I know where they are coming from. Women are nothing like men. They operate on feelings over logic. They don't realize how society changed to cater to them. Women don't understand what it means to be treated like you don't exist, or even worse like you're expendable. The ideal woman would have a male brain.
And women see prenups as a massive red flag so that doesn't work. The only thing women have over men are that they can give birth, and the moment artificial wombs and egg generation can occur to a feasible extent is the moment women become obsolete.
No.348200
>>348192
courts can overrule prenups u faggot, and they always do in favor of the bitches
No.348207
>>348197
>Women don't understand what it means to be treated like you don't exist, or even worse like you're expendable.
This seriously just sounds like /r9k/-tier REEEEEEEEE'ing at women because you can't get any. You all sound like a bunch of prison gay losers who are trying to force yourselves to be gay because you can't get a woman. I know plenty of perfectly sane, nice, right-wing women. You're both literally just describing the absolute worst gold-digging scum. I could do the same thing by pointing to any of the countless mindless dudebro douchebags men out there or the vapid attention whoring flamboyant fags.
All these prison gay chasers need to fuck off.
No.348211
>>348207
>prison gay losers who are trying to force yourselves to be gay because you can't get a woman
I'm actually not. I'm quite feminine.
>I know plenty of perfectly sane, nice, right-wing women.
I live in a city. It's a lot of women who just take advantage of guys here.
>You're both literally just describing the absolute worst gold-digging scum. I could do the same thing by pointing to any of the countless mindless dudebro douchebags men out there or the vapid attention whoring flamboyant fags.
I'm still a virgin because I've turned down dozens of those dudebro douchebags who expected to just fuck me. I hate them too. I'm sorry that every time we spoke about Rosencranz, we didn't bring up Guildenstern, since I guess you can't speak about one without having to bring up the problems of the other.
>All these prison gay chasers need to fuck off.
I'm actually against them as well. The reason why I brought up what you quoted from me is because of my experiences crossdressing. While my face isn't the best, my body is girly and I have a nice figure. One of the things I've noticed while crossdressing at a club is that on nights I do crossdress, I'm treated infinitely better than nights I don't. When I'm perceived to be a woman, I'm treated like a person, but when I'm perceived as a man, I'm mostly ignored, even though my tastes and who I am did not change, only my clothes did. So I stand by what I said.
No.348223
>>348211
>while crossdressing at a club
I can't take you seriously anymore, sorry.
No.348234
>>348192
and you're a libtard, there are certainly good women around. the point made is that there's a fundamental difference in gender; due to pregnancy women have a much stronger preference for someone to act as protectorate. the topic of the thread is what makes me gay, and the more masculine trait of self-sustenance does it for me.
gender equality can get fucked. women and men are inherently different creations and anyone who gets mad over that is hopeless. looking at your posts you're a very bitter and vindictive person. you may be male but that doesn't automatically mean i'll prefer you over a female.
>>348223
like really, that was unnecessary. you got some shit to sort out hun.
No.348241
>>348016
thats too bad :( I have a 1972 dodge demon
No.348246
>>348223
>shit, I can't argue any of that but I'll just point out something I don't like and ignore the rest so save my ass
ftfy
No.348249
>>348234
>hun
way to really reinforce it lmao
No.348253
>>348241
i wanted to do a impala but they are too hard to come by at least project wise and i'd end up dumping way too much money in them, a chevy nova is also something i wanted to work on or a land yacht
>>348207
i think its safe to say alot of people who ended up here or were already here fell for the prison gay meme and it just kinda stuck to them.
No.348254
do any of the people here who dislike women actually bothered to tell the people they tried to be in a relationship with what exactly they wanted and expected from it???
No.348257
>>348254
>want to settle down with girl and live a nice peaceful life of taking it easy
>i am not ready for a commitment yet
>after 2 years
>have to keep recycling women to the point where it literally becomes the biggest chore you could possibly imagine
>they all just want to fuck around and be fed
>implying im gonna keep playing the same game several thousand times until the cock quarry dries up and they are forced to either sleep with kids way younger than them or settle down with the first man they can get
just give me a serious boyfriend who likes the stuff i like and isnt a whore and i will LITERALLY be set for life
No.348263
>>348254
I've lived with and dealt with enough women to learn for myself how shitty they are. They are like children who never grow up.
No.348264
>>348263
thing about me is that i actually like acting like a kid sometimes forgetting i am a adult with responsibilities, women (while petty and childish at times) seem to always expect me to act like an adult
with another guy, i'd expect us to both be able to just be ourselves and not have to worry about expectations and play the jump through the hoop so i can feed you act
No.348272
>>348254
That only works if you're both autistic. Neurotypical people's relationships are a constant clusterfuck of guessing games and psychological warfare. The funny thing is, they WANT it that way. I'm the kind of person who would write down everything significant about me in a small booklet and give the fucking thing to my partner on the first date, but that's why I never date.
No.348284
>>348272
>write down everything significant about me in a small booklet and give the fucking thing to my partner on the first date
daitng is doing that in conversation form you fucking genius
No.348370
>I never had feelings for women
Found out after watching a movie with a bros locker room scene in it. I was like 9 lmao
No.348374
>>347604
I never felt anything for women or men and was ready to die alone with 17.
Then trough some online friends i got into more gay circles without being gay. One thing led to another and a trap tried to jerk me off on mic while i was on a no fap run and almost broke me. Two months later i was e dating and that got it rolling
On a scale from 1 to 10 how pathetic is that
No.348379
>>348374
It's not. A lot of us are lonely and a lot of us never felt anything for anyone before. I hope you find what you're looking for, whatever that may be.
No.348392
No.348423
>what was the single moment in your life where you officially swore off women?
I had sex with one. Turns out when you're gay it's awful yo have sex with a woman.
I should have known I was gay in middle school. It took me till college to figure it out. I caught myself looking at the man when I watched straight porn. Lesbo porn did nothing for me at all. When I watched tv I'd force myself to look away from guys if they were shirtless. I did the same thing in the locker rooms. I imagine my walls would have been broken down if a boy came on to me back then.So many signs pointed to me being gay and I ignored them all to go after woman, out of fear, maybe. I think I did it to run from the truth. To prove I'm not gay to all the people that called be a faggot.
When I did chase girls most of them found a way to shit in my soul. I don't trust them. Out of every girl I've ever meet I might only trust 2 of them. Even then only 1 of them has proven to be a real friend. I've had guys fuck me over too.
No.348441
>>348392
>not george micheal or elton john
hmmmm
>>348423
i insert as the girl getting fucked by the guy in porn and from there it kinda escalated into what i am today
i had sex with men and women but with women it felt like i had to always be moving in order to get her off or something but my first time with a guy was cool cause he kinda let me go at my own pace and when i bottomed he didnt just thrust away until he was satisfied but he kinda took it easy and tried to make it enjoyable for both of us
No.348701
No.348772
>>347604
started with fapping to chicks with dicks, then it was to twinks, which was followed by posting pictures of myself online.
No.348939
>>347604
I've been gay for as long as I can remember.
I didn't fully accept or realize it until the summer I was 14.
There was this cute blonde kid who stayed in the room next to mine at sleep-away camp. We got along well, he might have even been interested in me, but I was too self-conscious to make any advances.
I remember putting my hand on his once, that made him blush in the way that only paler guys can. After that, it was pretty clear to me that I was a faggot through and through.
No.348940
Baby, I was born this way
No.348941
Somewhere between the rape, abuse and neglect of my childhood I think. Used to be extremely passionate about my faggot hatred (slightly less so now) but when I got to.. year 11? A cute goth boy came to my house and we stood on the balcony which overlooked the entire city I was in and then he pushed me up against the wall and kissed me. Pretty much exclusively gay after that. 10/10 kisser, would kiss again.
No.348968
>>348941
thats some good jerk off material for life
No.349017
>>348990
I didn't realize oil salesmen cared this much about the bankers.
No.349020
>>348941
>slightly less so now
i hope you'll let go of it all
such hate is stupid and cute at all
No.349557
Sucking my friends toes when i was like 14. Also sucked his fingers and he bit really hard into mine (which strangely aroused me)
No.349582
>>349557
>Sucking my friends toes when i was like 14.
sounds like you were already gay
No.349683
>>349582
that's maybe true tbh. it did solidify in my mind though that i definitely liked guys (i was sort of in denial previously) and also established me as having a foot fetish haha.
No.349704
>>348234
Why on earth is a right wing conservative caveman doing in a homosexual board?
Why are trying to force your shit so fucking hard?
Are you trying to save some souls?
For your non existent deity?
No.349705
>>348234
Gender equality is just wanting equality under the law you sperg
No.349712
>>347604
always hard a hard on for both sexes even tho ive always favored men. also been really sub since my childhood so i just kind of chose men over women.
No.351368
>>347604
I don't even know if I am.
I get really excited and emotionally needy when thinking of a "male" figure being my partner, but at the same time I struggle to be ettracted to their bodies.
Conversely, I can get it up for women's bodies, but I could never be with one romantically, as they lack the kind of 'dominance' I feel like I need, but then we're at the problem of me not being attracted to men again.
I actually thought of maybe configurations that would "work", but then I try to picture myself kissing anyone and I just end up being disgusted, since I despise my masculine appearance.
It's like I have created a perfect, impenetrable jigsaw that makes sure a possible relationship I could be in doesn't exist.
No.351473
Anime got me into cute feminine-looking boys also made me swear off 3dpd and /r9k/ horror stories of bitches rewired my brain to the point where i am no longer able to view girls as cute.
No.351503
My mother had a weird concentration of hormones in her womb, or my cat gave me a disease, or something like that.
No.351505
Girls are pretty and all but I can't live without the dicke.
No.351508
>>351473
>Succubus (male)
God I hate that image, they're called Incubus!
No.351515
>>351503
No one really knows, there is no need to conjecture, especially in a pessimistic fashion
>>351508
That is exactly the point
No.351542
>>351508
WELL, technically Succubus tempt men while Incubus tempt females.
So a male that tempted men would technically still be a Succubus, not an Incubus. It's kinda funny to think that while Incubus and Succubus tie in with the whole religious guilt trip for doing what's natural, there's nothing historically about Gay Lilin.
Anyways I'm not exclusively gay but I'd say my Autism, apathy to social norms, excessive sexual drive, and years of browsing /d/ all lead me to the cock loving fag I am today.
No.351561
I was in my mid-late teens and sitting alone in a classroom waiting for the actual class to start with maybe 5 or so girls.
They were the kind of girls that would constantly giggle and laugh at everything that carried even the slightest and mundane sexual or romantic connotation.
Now, we were all sitting closely together with me in the middle doing nothing besides being awkward and not saying a thing.
And they were happily chatting back and forth about their periods.
This was something that would have put them to immediate shame in any other kind of situation like that. But here they were, literally talking over my head about their cunts leaking blood pretending I wasn't there.
This made me realize how you don't even exist for females if you're undesirable in one way or another. I was a 3/10 at worst but really I didn't have any major flaws. I was however a huge failure in school, socially crippled and bitter like a 50 year old alcoholic who's been out of job for too long.
If it was any other guy from my class, there would have been no way they would have ever had that discussion, they would have been too embarrassed. But I was perceived as so meek and undesirable that they had no problem with it, I posed no threat to them (that is, sexual).
No.351679
>>351473
>(male)
this is the fucking worst of the newest 4chan memes
No.351696
>>351561
i'll hope you'll find your cozy homoromantic love and fellowship austria
No.356911
>>347604
was pretty repressed when younger, never really saw guys as an option to be attracted to. then I developed a huge crush on a guy on my soccer team and realized I could be bi. Just started uni and realized I can count 3 guys I really want to fuck and no girls have jumped out at all. So I may have travelled a bit more towards the gay side of the spectrum
No.356939
>>349704
>caveman
>implying cavemen knew about right-left politics
Zzzzzzz next you'll be pulling the dinosaur card
No.356940
i had wet dreams about men as far back as i can possibly remember
at first i thought it was just hormones making my brain confused but eventually i just accepted my fate
No.356942
my best friend sucked my dick while we were 6. Made me bi, I guess
No.357169
Mass Effect. It started when I was 17, I watched shemale porn. When I discovered Mass Effect I wanted relationships with aliens so I didn't care about genders anymore. Later I discovered my preferance for feminine men.
No.370779
>>356911
this is pretty much me.
Developed a crush on a twinkish gay friend when I was 16 and slowly accepted that im bi, but now I look more and more at guys
No.370796
remember when being gay was actually about being mentally and sexually attracted to members of the same sex and not just feeling forced to be with males because women don't like you or because you've had some bad experiences with some bad females, or because the internet told you that all women are whores and have vaginas that smell like fish?
No.370798
>>370796
Most people here aren't gay or hetero at all anyways. You're virgins. You're non-participants. You don't get to have a sexual orientation because you've never had sex.
No.370866
>>347991
I feel the same way with my current bf. It's long distance and I plan on visiting him soon, but I just can't help but worry he's going to leave me. Maybe it's me being insecure, but I really love him and he's the only person I've ever had an interest in/made a connection with.
I hope to God he isn't cheating on me, because I think that would destroy me. I've never loved someone as strongly as him before. Sorry about the blogposting.
No.370901
>>370866
>ldr
I hope you partitioned 10% of your soul to rebuild when you inevitably blue screen, anon you sound really nice I'm sorry to be mean but people are such scum bags please be careful
No.370911
No.372349
No.372398
>>370796
On the one hand, "please be a woman with a dick" is tiresome. On the other, trugay is- sometimes- a vehicle in which to smuggle bodyposi tubbo bear shit.
I am not going to change my aesthetic preferences to satisfy a tiny sub-sub-sub-section of insecure furries.
No.372474
>>351473
go outside for once you fucking loser.
No.372475
>>372398
what?
Actually being attracted to men is a real thing.
Just because you're unfuckable doesnt mean you have to convert to fucking gays.
No.372476
>>348441
>George micheal and Elton John
Tacky homosexual icons that should all die of aids.
Elton John had a gay choice in fashion and only has like 2 songs.
Don't even get me started on George Michael, I mean at least he looked a little bit good looking
No.372933
>>348207
Sounds to me like you've done a great job in deluding yourself. Besides not having a penis and set of testicles, women stink - literally. They nag and whine and, once they catch you, forget about sex. I believed the bullshit for many years, but I just……don't anymore.
My "moment" came when I was a kid, but I was too afraid to say anything for years. Not afraid now -
Sing it loud
I'm gay and I'm proud.
No.374376
>>347604
The US gov't gay water.
No.374400
Growing up as the oldest and only boy in a family of 9 children.
No.374425
>what made you gay
I don't think you really know how sexuality works.
No.375838
>>351508
>>351542
Acktyually, they're succubi and incubi.
Learn your declensions, goddamnit.
No.375839
>>375838
>>347604
Also, liking dudes made me gay.
No.375863
Personally I hadn't really had any feelings towards either gender even at 15 or so years old. I just assumed I was straight like everyone else.
Then I discovered furry porn. It started with straight stuff obviously, as I was actually scared somehow to watch gay porn. Time went on and I started checking out gay stuff more and more, eventually transitioning to only gay smut. I realized I wasn't interested in girls in the slightest.
I still haven't fully accepted being gay partly because I just can't see myself being in a romantic relationship with a guy. To be honest I don't think I have felt love for a single person during my life.
At the moment I'm in a relationship with a girl. I care for her, but can't say I'd love her. Sex is boring, as I'd much rather suck a dick lol. Don't really know how to break up with her, though…
Looking back, this reply is a total mess. Oh well..
No.375864
Just one day fapped to yaoi instead of straight doujins. Then I realized I jizzed out a lot more cum for gay stuff so I made it a habit for myself.
No.375867
>>351508
Succubus drain men of sexual energy, Incubus prey on women. The entire joke is that it's definitely a Succubus that's a boy and thus preys on men.
No.375870
My cousin and one of his friends molested me so its just been the default.
No.375878
>>348234
>>348211
>crossdressing at a club
>hun
fucking die pls, i beg you
No.375891
>>375870
How did it happen?
No.375893
>>375870
I never understood this. Why would such event turn one gay or bi?
No.375922
>>375891
Like what sparked it? Probably them being horny teenagers. How it happened literally was I was left alone in my room a lot with them, or in the attic of our shed nobody goes in to.
>>375893
I jokingly say its my default, I'm just more interested in dicks and think this is just a coincidence.
No.375963
>>375922
>just a coincidence
Don't kid yourself. It's well known that trauma is the leading cause of homosexuality.
No.375965
>>375963
Possibly but I got molested almost as much by girls. Again a cousin and a different one entirely who was just a friend who visited from the neighboring trailer park.
If anything shouldn't that have balanced me out to bi?
No.375966
>What made you gay?
Nothing you can't be made gay and anyone who says otherwise is just a closest fag in denial.
No.376044
>>375963
No it isn't.
Browne, Angela, and David Finkelhor. "Impact of child sexual abuse: A review of the research." Psychological bulletin 99.1 (1986): 66.
>States no correlation.
Fromuth, Mary Ellen. "The relationship of childhood sexual abuse with later psychological and sexual adjustment in a sample of college women." Child Abuse & Neglect 10.1 (1986): 5-15.
>States that any present correlation is very low, and more likely attributed to an increase in diversity of sexual activities experienced.
So, no, it is not "widely known."
No.376045
>>376044
Lisak, David. "The psychological impact of sexual abuse: Content analysis of interviews with male survivors." Journal of traumatic stress 7.4 (1994): 525-548.
>Also states no correlation between homosexuality, but rather a concern about homosexuality, either of others or of themselves.
No.376152
>>348423
>To prove I'm not gay to all the people that called be a faggot.
Fuck, this hits too close to home
No.376160
>>375863
You should so break up and yeah I did the exact same thing. Thought I was asexual for like a week when I was 15 but found furry porn
No.376162
im not so quit sure. i was made gay or chose to be gay??????????????
it was in the school toilet with a classmate. we done it 3 times then later after months i did it with a friend 2 building away for about years until now. (im 25btw we are still doing it) i did not know what gay is and did not know im gay until i was 18. i have no affection toward woman and never got interested to them.
No.376166
>>351542
arent incubus and succubus just different names for demonic genders? humans have male and female so demons have inccubus and succubus?
No.376167
>>372933
>once they catch you, forget about sex
t. louis ck
No.376168
>>376044
>jewish women psychiatrists paid by rich jews and jewish corporations
>peddle the myth that homosexuality is never caused by child sexual abuse or rape
this is like some milo yiannopoulous shit. "my priest raped my mouth - but wait! - I was already gay and I enjoyed it even though I was only 9 years old". sure thing, kikes
No.376195
>>376168
Great evidence, solid arguments.
88/41.
No.376196
>>376166
They're specific types of demons. There are tons of 'em, according to all that Enochian shit.
No.376310
My brother always made me take showers with him. He'd try to convince me to suck his dick, though I never fully went through with it. He'd dry-hump me and pretend to fuck me like I was a girl. This happened on a somewhat daily basis, and the result is exactly what you'd expect.
No.376321
>>376318
It was mostly dry-humping. Just constantly.
>in my bed
>on the couch
>right in front of my mom and her husband
No one ever did anything to stop it
No.376324
>>376321
how old are you and him? now and in the time. did he ever apologize?? does he still does that to you??? did you ever tell your parents about this???? dont you look at each other in awkward way?????
No.376325
That was about 5+ years ago, I'm 20 now. And it was the home I grew up in, so I guess it was never awkward. He doesn't know he did anything wrong, so he wouldn't apologize
No.376326
>>376325
but he does not do this to you anymore?
No.376327
>>376326
No, other people do now
No.376328
>>376327
ahh ok. other people is fine. but for your brother i dont know maybe he did not know what he did was morally wrong, i think he even regret it on daily basis.
also there are some interesting weird shit in this board. 8chan is truly a wonderful and cancerous place indeed
No.376330
No.376354
>>376195
>oy vey stop calling me out you n-nazi
>>>/israel/
No.376635
>Earliest feelings of attraction to other males was about at about 5 years old
>Laying on top of my friend's brother's back while we played SNES
>I lost or something or got bored and gave him a very long hug while laying on him
>Felt very warm, safe, natural
>"Stop little dude, that's gay."
>"O-oh."
>Don't think about it much afterwards because I'm just a kid.
>At eleven years old, I am forced through puberty via testosterone therapy due to a Kallmann's Syndrome diagnosis
>Start reading a lot of gay romance stories and looking at gay porn. Mostly into fem twinks and hairy bears.
>Not attracted to women in the slightest.
>Tell mom that I'm probably gay.
>She breaks down and tells me that I'm not, throws glass jars at me as I dodge down the hall
>Suppress. Everything.
>I just want to have a normal life.
>Try my hardest (and fail) to be attracted to girls until the ripe age of 19
>At work stocking avacados on a shelf as a beautiful specimen approaches
>"Do you know where (something, I don't remember) is?"
>Olive oil skin, lean frame, long dark wavy hair, slight stubble, magenta v-neck shirt, skinny jeans, nice ass, slight crotch bulge.
>"….yeah, it's over there"
>"Thanks"
>I watched him as he walked away. His gentle composure. The slight sway of his hips. Everything about him did it for me.
>"He's so beautiful. I want to kiss…him…" I uttered to myself
>As soon as that escaped my mouth, I knew I couldn't keep the charade up any longer. I'm just gonna have to be a fag or never be happy.
I have a boyfriend now. Been with him for 3 amazing years so far and we'll likely be married this year. I guess I can do a second one of these describing how that happened if anyone is interested.