/abdl/ - Adult Baby - Diaper Lover★

No one here and tell you how to run your life, dude. Situations vary.

I will say that hypnosis is just fap material, it doesn't do anything.

As for where to get stuff, it depends where you are, some places don't shop worldwide, or have higher prices. Literally just google "ABDL diapers" and see what comes up. Most of those sites will also sell accessories and clothing.

No where really does toys specifically for ABDLs, most people settle for finding the biggest version of any particular children's toy is available.

And furniture is expensive as fuck and usually locally handmade, I'm not sure anyone is doing reasonably priced, easily accessible ABDL furniture

>>85958 (OP)

For onesies, you're going to want to avoid plastic button snaps, those show inferior quality. I would recommend OnesiesDownUnder:

https://onesiesdownunder.com/

That being said, do not buy onesies from LittleForBig.However, if you're looking for a pacifier, LfB's pacifiers are okay for the price and you can buy them on Amazon. NUK 5 pacifiers are what many people recommend, so something similar to that should be fine. I wouldn't really know where to find anything else. Maybe eBay? What >>85963 said about toys is true. That and hypnosis tapes only enhance the sexual experience, she'll only do what she wants to do. Don't be afraid to open up a private tab and google some of this stuff.

>>85958 (OP)

Seconding for hypnosis is just tap material. It's fun to play along and works as encouragement and reinforcement for stuff you want to happen. But it doesnt actually do anything beyond placebo of the mind.

If you want advice on products and where to look. Give us a region and some anon will know where best to look. Americas, Europe, or austrailia?

>>85958 (OP)

If she's very shy talking about it, get her to write her fantasies down with the understanding that you'll read them later. Basically it just sounds like she needs a lot of reassurance and encouragement to be herself. Communication is essential in any relationship.

If she wants to be forced into diapers, she'd probably enjoy the various types of locking clothing that exist. Privatina (in Europe) do some nice back-fastening clothes which would make it hard for her to undress herself or use the toilet. Locking plastic panties are fairly common as well, although the quality varies.

Hypnosis is at least theoretically possible, as long as the subject wants/believes it will work. It isn't magic, but it could certainly help her become a bedwetter. Even if it doesn't work, she'll probably enjoy it.

Sit down with your wife, hold both of her hands, look into her eyes, and tell her how you feel about her kink. Tell her you love it and you want to share that with her.

Then tell her yours.

As others have noted, if she's shy, writing fantasy exchanges can work. But women want you to get emotional, make eye contact, and confide. You've won the lottery, don't screw up turning in the ticket.

>>85989

Also, for lockable diaper covers:

https://www.etsy.com/listing/642563923/pink-lockable-diaper-cover-pants-anti

Pricier, but excellent quality (I bought that one myself).

Why not invite her to an evening of her relaxing in a diaper and talking about her fantasies? As long as you are genuinely interested she won't refuse to divulge some of her turn-ons (but let her pick the date). Test out various approaches when she's curled up against you, padded with a nice [drink of choice] (after you've gotten her horny with a bit of foreplay). Tell her you've found this whole world of paraphernalia out there, and test the waters (“I saw this really cute locking diaper cover. Would you like me to order that for you?”).

Also, post tits, or at least her padded bum.

Assuming the mental gymnastics to justify you not knowing ABDL but posting on this chan. And suspending disbelief of magic baby-wife. Just initiate the next baby session, but instead of focusing on what you want from it, just act like a child psychologist, give her toys or crayons and encourage she get in litt-space and then ask open-ended questions about what she likes/wants without leading her. "How do feel when you color a pretty picture for me? If you could have your dream nursery what would be in it? Would you like to draw it? How do you feel when little and I just let you play and don't prompt sex?" And see if that helps her talk about /her/ wants and fantasies more. /Then/ you can follow that up, rather than surprise her with something extreme or not quite inside her idea of how she wants to play. Plus it affects the joint property/income, so a talk should always happen about that.

>>85997

I can buy it. Assume for a second their personalities are similar aka weird. He probably browses other boards and now found this one to discuss his wife's fantasies here.

>>85999

We are hilariously high ranked on the landing page relative to other topics.

>>86012

Autistic faggots and diapers, name a more iconic duo.

>>85966

For what it's worth, the placebo effect has a name for a reason. The mind can be tricked into a bunch of crazy shit if it's reinforced with enough belief. I'm mostly with you though. Imo behavior is trainable, making hypno pretty much the same as having a coach to help keep your goal fresh in your mind. Like with the incontinence stuff OP is probably talking about, I don't think they cause any real physical changes, but "playing along" can definitely start and cement desired habits.

There's also the weird hypnosis shit like brainwashing, but violating the Geneva Conventions probably isn't up OP's alley. Or maybe it is, since his post is probably just fap-bait.

>>86132

How would one learn to brainwash…

>>86133

From the reports I've read, it usually involves mentally breaking someone with torture and is still very unreliable.

I don't think the kind of fine-grained control we want is possible with current scientific knowledge. At best you can use the placebo effect and suggestion to encourage someone to do something they wanted to do anyway.

Does she actually want you to make her your little baby 24/7? The way you described it sounds really pushy/aggressive.

Take a step back and just talk to her about it. Maybe she's into diapers but not that into them. Fetishes are like a spectrum, people have different levels how much they like to fantasize or participate in them.