I just really want an adult version of a goodnite.
1) very discrete (quiet, not noticeable)
2) comfortably hold at least 2 wettings
3) tall/effective leak guards. (I dont want to leak when I sit down, etc)
4) fits the adult body the same way a real goodnite fits a kids body (see explanation)
5) has the same style sides as a real goodnite (not the frilly/rumpled elastic look most adult pullups have)
6) have designs that are roughly appropriate for the upper age range of real goodnites. (not super mature adult level, but not baby or really little designs. The kind of thing a 10-13 year old would want.)
So about the fit thing. You see adults who can fit into goodnites, but they dont really "fit" so much as they dont tear apart. The sides are usually stretched more than they are really designed to stretch, the top doesn't come up enough, and the front and back (especially the back) dont really offer full coverage. the front of the pullup should extend beyond the immediate crotch, and the back should cover the cheeks. If you see a kid wearing goodnites (or remember wearing them yourself as a kid like I do) the front covered much more of the front of your body, and your butt was totally covered. Also, the top came up at least as high as normal underwear, maybe a bit higher. You put the same thing on an adult, and its like wearing really low cut underwear.
I understand that the adult body structure is different from a kids, but I feel like we should be able to get something closer to goodnites than what we already have.
On a side note, if you ever look at the comments on the goodnites website, one of the most frequent complaints/requests is to make them available in larger sizes, either because a kid is disabled or they are a bedwetter but are getting bigger.