/abdl/ - Adult Baby - Diaper Lover★

Just try diaper bois. A lot of old dudes but i found someone my age pretty quickly

It's okay Anon. I was like that too till I found my current gf. I thought she was a total normie who just played PC Games. After a year I found out she browsed /pol/, told her about my fetish now she's more into being a mommy and diapers than I am. Just keep trying.

>>71535

Fuck that I'm not gay, not going to get fucked in the ass just for some diaper play

>>71544

I don't even want to stay into diapers anymore man. I know they say you can't quit this and I used to think so too but I don't like that every time I meet a girl and get interested, I wonder if she'll like me for liking diapers. Too far out there for me to expect anything from it. Idk, I'm glad you found your girl but I'm just getting tired of keeping these thoughts in the back of my mind.

>>71544

Today, on Shit That Never Happened…

>meet a nice mommy

>shows her pic

>she's fat

>meet another one

>shows her pic

>she's fat

>meet a third one near me

>she suggests meeting up then cancels on me twice after a week of talking and leaves me on read

The kicker is that the only mommy I've ever met that I was into and kept talking to me was across the fucking ocean. Oh well.

>>71574

I understand fully and how rare it is. It's doable regular sex can help dilute the need for fetish bullshit.

>>71629

Yeah. I know honestly pretty sure I died and I'm in a coma living out my dream life. My life was utter shit up until about a year and a half ago.

I've been in about a dozen relationships, and I gotta say being in my first ABDL relationship has been good for the shit we get up to regularly

Overall though, partner is an unstable mess. Fucking antiderp-ressants and needing alone time after most social contact, including from her fucking partner. I swear I just go hang out with her roommate and smoke a joint or something.

>>71629

I ended up getting hitched with a normie who now plays way more PC than I even do. She wants me to regress for her but I have issues giving up control… Just become successful ex: don't live with parents, have a nice place, stay in shape, have goals….

>>71894

>not wanting a beautiful mature woman with a full figure

Could be worse. I've been with someone for seven years and even though she's worn diapers in the past with me, recently she stated that she has no interest. Feels fucking bad man.

Sometimes finding a GOOD partner is better than finding one that will get your rocks off. My wife and I have been together for almost 7 years now, she knows about my diaper fetish and doesn't really care, just said she won't wear which is fine by me.

Having a partner you can spend time with, enjoying being around and can actually have a conversation with is more important to me than someone fulfilling my fetish. The more and more horror stories I hear of some of the ABDL dating scene (mentally unstable, completely social inept etc) I'm glad I have my wife. That being said, I do know there are many normal and properly functioning ABDL couples. Most just tend to stay private lol.

>>71935

I like thicc women but unfortunately they were just unattractive fat sacks of lard.

>>71934

>canada

>everyone has dope here

>>71931

Are you me?

>>71942

Are you me? My long time SO hasn't stated as much but its pretty clear that she's less than interested. On a rare occasion she'll get into it a bit but I think that's mostly because it turns her on that its such a turn on for me… if that makes any sense.

>>71574

>I'm just getting tired of keeping these thoughts in the back of my mind.

That feel. I hear you dawg.

Lately everytime I wear (which at this point I do mostly when my SO isn't around) I pretty much just nut and then change thinking 'why did I even bother putting that on?' I think I might be… growing out of it? Idk, could be mild depression hurting my already weak libido, who's to say.

>>72017

Is she into the little aesthetic at all? My gf's ageplay range is 5-7 and 11-12 and reasons that shes "too old to wear diapers", though drinks from bottles from time to time and various other things.

>>72018

>Lately everytime I wear (which at this point I do mostly when my SO isn't around) I pretty much just nut and then change thinking 'why did I even bother putting that on?' I think I might be… growing out of it? Idk, could be mild depression hurting my already weak libido, who's to say.

You're not growing out of it - it's just depression. If you make it out of the depression, the fetish will come roaring back.

>>72018

As much as I've said and have seen it said that no one really wants this fetish, it kind of fells weird when it fades.

>>71894

Fat or not, where were you actually meeting these people?

i need to know, iv been chating w i 60 year old daddy on fet for ages bit creepy but ok, we are in same city im 19 should i meet him tomorrow, or will he kill me?

>>72164

One off of Fetlife, one on a discord server, one on Omegle (I know)

>>72200

He will kill you

>>72200

He probably won't kill you. There are far fewer murderers than you'd believe from watching TV.

In the unlikely event he does, take solace in the fact that we don't really know what it means to die anyway. Just think of yourself as an explorer on a one-way journey.

>>72278

i pussyed out anyway, might actually do it next time thanks for the advice anon

>>72204

>one on Omegle

How did you meet someone on Omegle? I go on Omegle to masturbate (usually in front of fat old men because that is who uses that site). Is there a way to find good people?

>>71523 (OP)

At least you can wear. I'm stuck taking care of a family that hates me and I can't do anything. Not even meet someone else.

>>71894

Did she not meet up with you because you were fat?

>>72288

I once met an abdl girl who wanted to have a conversation who was actually cute and she was real and used the cam and we had a fairly decent conversation that lasted 20-30 mins. too bad I was too much of a pussy and disconnected myself.

>>72294

Live and learn, friend.

What are good sites for finding a diaper gf?

>>72386

No joke, got messaged by two women on Fetlife during the first week I made my account. Both of them were oil tankers. I don't understand this fetish and people who are way too fat.

>>72396

Unfortunately this fetish attracts a lot of people who don't generally care about their own health, physically or mentally. They also often have a victim mentality, where "muh cundishuns" are the things keeping them fat. It's pretty sad, but it's also not your problem. That kind of figure just advertises the fact that they don't give a shit and won't put effort into anything.

>>72328

Residual hatred because I failed a lot in life. Now I make more than most of my family but they still resent me for my prior fuckups. Success did not change their hatred of me. And yet here I am, obligated to do this.

>>72399

This is a good response, thank you.

I've sorta come to accept the only way I'll really get a partner is by slowly getting a boyfriend/girlfriend into it.

Being a mommy you'd think it'd be easy to find a partner but everyone I've engaged this fetish with has been either creepy, mentally unstable or depressed. Maybe it's just the 18-30 age range?

It's easy to find boys and girls my type, physically smaller than me and younger that are up for it, it just ends up being their personality that I can't stand. I gave it a go with a cute girl for a couple of months who had depression and it just made the experience pretty crappy for me. The attention a little needed and the attention a depressed person needed was just a bit too much.

I've still yet to find a single person who's actually into everything I'm into though so I've given up on that. The nursing, changing, diapers 24/7, rules, sorta just living the baby lifestyle non-sexually for long periods (all within reason of course, not like I'm a hardcore dominatrix)

Maybe one day…

>>72442

B O S T O N

Srsly though, i used to be depressed but ive had my shit together for a few years now and am doing great in my career which has massively boosted my confidence. So i fit the architype, but i've also overcome it.

>>72455

Glad you're doing better anon. The depression itself wasn't the problem with them though, it was more the attitude of "i'm depressed but don't want to do anything about it" so I'm really happy there's people who work to overcome it.

I managed to get my last little to do more for herself, like making a pizza from scratch and tidying her pigsty of a room which I was pretty proud of her for.

>>72442

Yup. This is where I'm at too. Haven't had enough experience to see the depression and what not though. Maybe I'm saving myself a headache. As cliche as it is diapers are the last of the reasons for being with someone. Can't even be a big for a mild little before I get annoyed after a while.

>>72481

Maybe it's a personality conflict? If you have nothing in common with them other than diapers/ageplay then it'll suck.

I'd take it as having a normal partner with this little extra bit on top.

My last little was a really good girl, like all the time, so I never had anything to be annoyed about, in fact I was a little relieved when they did slip up so I'd finally have something to punish them for.

>>72506

Haha my little broke rules all the time, good way to put her in diapers even though she hated them. I don't know, I think it was probably that. Something else about her made it hard to connect meaningfully. So I guess it could be chocked up to that

You don’t find an ABDL gf, you lay out hints on your profile (this takes balls and risk of exposing yourself) and she’ll reach out to you.

99% of ABDL girls don’t broadcast themselves or talk about their fetish. They are not as horny as dudes which is why it might seem at times they don’t exist. Its also so easy for a woman to get a normie guy to baby her that she will never need to use an ABDL specific service.

Why is it so hard to meet girls with a diaper fetish? Hypergamy. Simple. A realized this when I met my current gf who is a diaper lover. She advertised being into bdsm but she never said anything on her profile about diapers