/abdl/ - Adult Baby - Diaper Lover★

>>66832 (OP)

First question is are you already her friend because of not that’s your first step. Remember you want to appear as though you want to be with her despite her diapers not because of it.

>>66832 (OP)

Actually are there any friends who know your secret because I think the thing to do is have your friends set you up with her on a blind date. If it appears to be random she’ll be a lot less likely to question your motives.

>>66832 (OP)

How did you find out about it? Did you notice yourself or was it gossip?

Either way, chances are she's pretty guarded about it, so be prepared to take it slowly, no matter how you go about it. And you might want to think about whether there are other things you like about her, since basing a potential relatiionship on this alone might not be a good idea in the first place

>>66832 (OP)

have you tried waking up?

Don't.

Imagine if the poor girl was missing a limb and that was your fetish. This is something about herself she probably hates and the fact it's the only thing about her that makes you interested in her is something she will be creeped out by.

Just leave her alone.

>>66858

Honestly, its no different than if he were attracted to her rack or face. Initial attraction is almost always vain.

OP, ask her out on a date. If and when it gets to sex, let her know you are into ageplay.

“To be honest, diapers kind of turn me on, but if it makes you uncomfortable we don’t have to involve them”

>>66885

No, even if it gets to sex then you don't just say that lol.

You should wait until you are a bit closer to bring up fetishes like that

>>66885

It's completely different. Shit like facial symmetry, hip to waist ratio, or breast size are just natural things all men are attracted to (though they may have preferences therein).

OP has a fetish, which is inherently creepier to start a conversation with someone because of. Like if he was a footfag and tried to get with a girl who had nice feet

And let's face it, it is the only reason he's interested, do you really think he's going to say that it doesn't have to be a part f it? Of course not. Let alone stick to it if he did say that.

Again it's something the girl probably hates about herself and you will invoke nothing but disgust by telling her you're into it. Just leave it alone OP.

>>67107

I think you'll find that people who have to wear diapers by far prefer having their partner being turned on by them to their partner being disgusted by them. Incontinent people and diaper fetishists are practically made for the sake of supporting eachother. Go for it, OP, but don't be an autist using it as your pick-up line.

>>67165

I never said HE should be disgusted, I said SHE absolutely will be.

He should be accepting, clearly, but more likely than not she will hate being incontinent and think you're a freak for being turned on by it

>>67433

So it's okay to date incontinent people as long as you're not turned on by it..? Which is weird because I'd guess most people would bail at the moment they found out.

Let's face it, having the chance to live out your fantasies is not something that happens every day. There's nothing that would suggest they wouldn't get along, and if they don't, it won't last long. Fact is people get into relationships all the time, just like they break up all the time.

Bottom line is, if you're not being autistic/just autistic, I don't see what's so wrong about being attracted to people who you find attractive. If OP is a retard and throws himself at her cause diapers be hot, we'll attend the funeral. If, by some miracle, OP is a regular person, he'll just get to know her and then try to date her. At some point there'll be a time for complete honesty, but not in the early stages. And I'd also guess that the girl would be happier with a guy who "doesn't mind" than with a guy who's grossed out, too.

>>66832 (OP)

Honestly I don't think you should ignore it just because she wears diapers, but you also have to be prepared that she very likely isn't AB/DL. Don't act as if you like her because of the diapers or despite it, just ignore it unless she brings it up (or you get into a relationship first where you can mention it). I see nothing wrong with pursuing it partially because of the diapers, but if you make it a big thing then you'll probably creep her out and it won't go anywhere. It's like if you're attracted to Asians there's nothing wrong with dating an Asian, but if you make a big deal out the person being Asian you'll be seen as understandably creepy.

>>66832 (OP)

>I just found out this girl in my class in incontinent and wears diapers 24/7.

Is she from israel army ?

>>67433

Sounds like you're just insecure about your fetish, to be honest. Plenty of incontinent people find us to be a godsend to them.

Befriend her naturally, don't mention anything about it, slowly gain her trust and build a lasting relationship with her, then listen with an open mind when she tells you she was cursed by a witch. DO NOT LAUGH AT HER, SHE WILL BREAK UP YOU. DO NOT GO CONFRONT THE WITCH, SHE WILL TURN YOU INTO A PUMPKIN. What you have to do is go to Europe. Find the wizard. He'll teach you spellcasting and her swordsmanship. Then you have to go on a quest to save Scotland from the fire breathers. After that, you'll be ready to take on the witch. There's a soft time limit in that if you take more than three damage phases to kill her, she will turn back time and you'll essentially lose the fight, so, y'know, be quick about it.

>>67440

how did you get that?