but I also got to look out for my fellow abdls and though abdl will never be accepted like bdsm is after 50 shades of gray movies…. if pedos are involved in abdl targeted businesses it will only perpetuate the stigma that all abdls fucking hate. the first thing in any vanilla persons mind when you describe abdl is to assume we are all pedos. and so for that reason i wouldnt want them associated with this business. make your own.
this stigma is the only thing that has stopped me from telling girls ive had long term relationships with as i dont want them thinking theres even a 1% chance i am a pedo. so until its 0% which probably will never happen i will never tell a vanilla gf. ive been real lucky on fetlife finding girls to get my abdl desires attended to so will continue that and hopefully one of these days one of these hoes will be relationship material. otherwise ill be cheating on my vanilla wife once or twice a month. does anyone know the ideal personality traits of a vanilla chick for opening up to them about abdl? open minded/down to earth i know and maybe id ease them in with 'daddy' and bdsm shit then one night say "i saw the most fucked up porn last night about these couples dressing up in diapers. omggg its crazy… lets try it you wont"