[–]▶ No.39648>>39653 >>39776 [Watch Thread][Show All Posts]
So I have a question…
How far is too far? I now autism blah blah blah. But like if I wear diapers under clothing for public outings is that too far? How bout wearing a super crinkly diaper and plastic pants?
Obviously showing the diaper crosses the line but where does everyone draw the line between socially acceptable diaper wearing and sperg lord eat shit and die anon.
▶ No.39649>>39652 >>39654 >>39655 >>39702 >>39745
If someone who is genuinely incontinent but also polite would do X, you may do X.
If someone is genuinely incontinent, they will wear diapers and plastic pants in public. They will pee in their diaper, because the pee smell is not very noticeable. If they poop in their diapers, they will use nullo so that there is less smell and also they will change very quickly and will try not to be in enclosed spaces before they change.
They will not tell strangers that they are wearing diapers (but maybe a stranger will look at their butt and guess). They will bag their used diapers before throwing them into public wastebins.
They will not flaunt their diapers by wearing tight clothing. Not-too-tight jeans or slacks with normal-sized diapers (even thick abdl diapers) will be ok. If you are worried about being too obvious, tie a flannel shirt around your waist.
▶ No.39652>>39655
>>39649
Summed it up well. There is a thrill to wearing in public, and if that's how you want to engage in the fetish, that's fine. But have respect for the public generally. Impeding on others just to get your rocks off is a shitty thing to do.
▶ No.39653>>39668 >>39680
>>39648 (OP)
Present day human society is horrifyingly unethical in countless different ways. It won't make the slightest bit of difference how much of an obnoxious ass you are in public because you are likely surrounded by people who condone or participate in infinitely worse things. Until the suffering you cause can be measured in human lives, there's nothing to be concerned about.
▶ No.39654>>40135
>>39649
Get a load of this guy.
It's such a fucking bore how everyone on this board has to be such a narc. "Wehhhh put your diapers in plastic bags before you throw them away!!" And shit like "Poop my diaper!! Omg that's so gross!! Well…maybe once every blue moon and I change it as soon as I do it!!"
▶ No.39655
>>39649
>>39652
This exactly. Not everyone wants to partake in a fetish.
▶ No.39658
>>39656
Ink bitch makes good points. Shame she looks like someone used her body for a drawing board
▶ No.39659>>39660
>>39656
Yeah she walked the fuck out because he was right. She shouldn't have even attempted to get into their business anyway. With her self righteous holier than thou ass. "nigga you guuuuuud?"
▶ No.39660>>43846
>>39659
Like legit she was probably being nosy as fuck and all in their conversation creeping behind the fucking lion king section. If she had minded her own business and went in there to shop or whatever and go about her day she would have never even noticed those slight kink related things they were doing.
Besides what those two did is HARDLY kinky, that's buddies from school joking around levels of kinky. Like nobody has heard or said to someone in jest "close your mouth or I'll put something in it." or playfully slapped a friends ass. She needs to stop looking for things and projecting her reality onto others.
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▶ No.39668
>>39653
This! Fuck there's grannies popping their hips because people stick huge gauges in their ear. People dress provocatively to get a reaction all the fucking time.
I think the line is don't jerk off outside or go out of your way to interrupt someone's day. I mean going to the store in a diaper like that, no one's getting traumatized let's be real. The most people do is giggle or try to pretend its not there.
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>>39656
>She claims to have been traumatized
What a fucking snowflake
▶ No.39680>>39681
>>39653
This exact attitude is why the world is such shit. Congrats
▶ No.39681>>39685 >>39686 >>39886 >>39919
>>39680
Your failure to grasp the true scale of suffering in the world is why it is so shit. Being triggered by seeing an adult dressed as a toddler is not even on the same scale as being a victim of the "justice" system, being homeless, starving to death, being bombed, or any of the other shit that goes on in the world. If you want to eliminate suffering, go and work on solving those problems. All of the things you're told to do to be a good citizen (pick up litter, be courteous, etc.) do nothing to solve the big problems in the world.
▶ No.39685>>39688 >>39700
>>39681
You know what, you're right. Let me just shit myself right in front of you while I walk my tranny pet on a leash oh whoops she pissed on your leg.
▶ No.39686
>>39681
Watch out, we've got a utilitarian who can only view the world in terms of simple formulas with an incalculable value.
▶ No.39688
>>39685
Honestly seeing that would probably cheer me up a bit, or at least distract me from the usual suicidal ideation.
▶ No.39700>>39701
>>39685
how much of a shutin do you have to be to think that's even a mediocre inconvenience?
▶ No.39701>>39703 >>39717 >>39743
>>39700
So you'd be ok with someone peeing on your leg in public?
▶ No.39702>>39718
Damn, wtf is this thread.
>>39649
/thread
▶ No.39703>>39719 >>39720
>>39701
Not the same anon, but it would fall squarely into the category of, "really annoying, but I don't feel compelled to commit suicide yet so all things considered it turned out quite well."
Seriously, someone pissing on my leg doesn't even come close to the most horrifying things that are likely to happen to me. I think there's a better than average chance I'll end up taking my own life. Hell, what really scares me is that I might not be able to commit suicide.
If I could swap all that for the horror of having someone piss on my leg every day I wouldn't hesitate. It's what, like 10 minutes with some soap and water?
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>>39701
I work at a kennel and have eight children in my family home. My leg is the least objectionable target
▶ No.39718
>>39702
Someone was upset at the notion of others not wanting to unnecessarily impose their degeneracy onto others and derailed it with moral grandstanding about human suffering.
▶ No.39719
>>39703
solution baking soda within the first hour or two. Any kind of juice afterwards.
▶ No.39720
>>39703
do you need someone to listen? do you wanna talk about it in the cuddlethread?
▶ No.39743
>>39701
But how could they pee on their leg if they're diapered anon? I think you're really just making an argument that we should be thickly crinkled all the time
▶ No.39745>>39747
>>39649
this basically
tl;dr don't be a dick, and don't ruin someone else's day because you get off to having a turd between your legs
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>>39745
But what if not even the slightest of erections are to be had, and you just like a wearable toilet is it anything goes onesie time forever?
▶ No.39753>>39759
People are right in the thread when they say it's not the worst thing in the world. Of course a lot of people do a lot worse everyday. But if you walk around like the guy in the OP picture, you're not being respectful of the general public. So don't be surprised when the public doesn't show you any respect back.
▶ No.39759>>39767
>>39753
I definitely agree that you shouldn't expect respect when dressing provocative. But most of the moralfags are jumping to shitting yourself, and the idjit who proposed peeing on someones leg.
Is the person wearing a diaper that obvious weird? Yeah. Are people going to notice? Yeah. But are they actually doing anything that causes anyone an actual problem? Fuck no.
Theres moralfags getting shocked and offended over shit like face piercing. It might distract someone at most, but the public is not your safe space. Go outside and you may see shit you think is gross.
▶ No.39767
>>39759
>Go outside and you may see shit you think is gross.
one more time for the crybabies in the back
▶ No.39776
>>39648 (OP)
I'm personally too self-conscious to do anything diapered publicly but in truth there's really no "moral" threshold.
It's really a question of how much you're willing to tolerate embarrassment and judgment versus how much you enjoy the sexual thrill.
▶ No.39799>>39804 >>39806 >>39846 >>39858
Leaving used diapers behind in public waste bins.
Y/N ?
▶ No.39804
>>39799
It's what waste bins are for. Just make sure to ball it up properly.
▶ No.39806
>>39799
Just wet sure, if its messy try to bag it.
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>>39648>>39649
Occurs to me I didn't really explain why these rules:
a. For us, diapers are sexual. To the extent that we flaunting our diapers, we're making it clear to others that we're basically jerking off in public. If the fetish were secret, I guess folks might just think we're weird (and bad-smelling). But it's not even a secret. It's been known since before the Jerry Springer days. So now anyone who sees a person flaunting their diaper will think, "that person is making their sex life my business." Not "their love life" -- it's not who you're with but what you're doing.
Corollary: you can do whatever you want at Folsom because everyone expects public sex at Folsom. And on Halloween, you can wear in public so long as you're dressed as a baby, but if your diaper is visible, you can't pee (maybe wear two and only wet the inside one? not sure if this works).
b. You can look away from a guy with face piercings. You can't sniff away from a poopy diaper.
c. It's hardly a mortal sin to break these rules. Think of it as on par with jerking off through your pants in public. That one might be more illegal, but it's not significantly worse. And it probably stinks less than a poopy diaper on a crowded train. Or maybe think of it like not brushing your teeth or showering for a week and then going out in public. Totally gross, rude, and unpleasant.
▶ No.39825
>>39817
Holy shit the autism my god…
▶ No.39844
>>39817
>once against focuses solely on shitty diapers
Not everyone shits and no one but you has brought it up
As for being sexual in public. People dress slutty all the time for a sexual thrill in public. There's people that get turned on by having piercings for the other example.
Jerking off in public is a far cry from wearing clothes.
▶ No.39846
>>39799
What do you think parents with infants do? Just make sure to tape it up correctly and if it's pooped consider sealing it in another plastic bag on top of that to further contain the smell.
▶ No.39858
>>39799
yeah, all sorts of gross shit goes into public garbage cans
unless it's in like a restaurant dining area or indoor area near food or something, then just throw it wherever
▶ No.39886>>39945
>>39681
That's not a way of engaging the argument and it is a cop-out. You can run the old "well it's not as bad as the worst things on the planet!" line of thinking about anything. Just say "It doesn't bug me" and don't be a moralizing little bitch.
If you do anything in public, you don't have a reasonable expectation of privacy. So yeah, my inner libertarian says go nuts in public, but you better damn well be able to handle the consequences of doing so (people taking photos, etc.).
▶ No.39918
We're lucky in that our fetish both can be practiced secretly even in public, and also has a medical 'excuse'.
If someone against all odds notice that you are wearing a diaper the vast majority of people won't think it's sexual and unless it's some extreme printed ABDL diaper, saying it's for medical reasons should prevent any further issues.
It's not like we are walking around in a gimp suit or drag…
That doesn't mean you shouldn't be discreet however. Same rules as for truly incontinent people would definitely be a good benchmark.
▶ No.39919
>>39681
You sound like you've stayed too long in Portland.
▶ No.39922>>39938
jesus fuck you are all socially retarded
▶ No.39938>>39942
>>39922
Exhibitionists know the risks. The part of the thrill is the gamble that you could be seen by someone who remembers you. Elsewise, yeah people are going to laugh and think we're crazy. Because we probably are a little crazy. But in terms of affecting anyone else? Not really.
Don't jerk off, shit, or harass people. Don't poop yourself around people. But I mean, the only danger is to the person themselves.
▶ No.39942>>40004
>>39938
>The part of the thrill is the gamble that you could be seen by someone who remembers you.
That's the irony of it all. The people who defend it against judgement do it exactly because of the taboo surrounding it.
▶ No.39945
>>39886
I'm not comparing it to the worst things on the planet. I'm comparing it to what the average person does on a daily basis. The usual mechanisms and goings-on in present day human society are orders of magnitude more harmful and horrifying than even the worst displays of public masturbation.
If you disagree or think a statement like that is moralizing, I don't really care. I don't have any respect for anyone here at the best of times.
▶ No.39960>>40018 >>43835 >>43847
Everyone in this thread needs to stop acting like it's the fucking 1950s. Has anyone here even opened their eyes?
People are half naked now and it's normal. People fuck in front of children at gay pride parades. Hell, children are even getting their rocks off there. Wearing a diaper in public is fine and holy shit, I'm so tired of hearing people say
"Oh, well ahem, when disposing of my diaper, I ensure it's fully encased within three plastic bags before tying it up properly and--" Fuck off you pompous fucks. SHUTUP.
▶ No.40004
>>39942
I'm defending it more on people trying to compare it to rape. It's weird and tactless, but the idea it would harm anyone but the show off is dumb
▶ No.40007
I walked up to a pretty lady and made her watch while I shit my diaper then cried for her to change me. She ran away so I took the diaper off and chucked it at her head. I mean come on, it's 2017 people. Like, get over it.
▶ No.40018>>40035 >>40104
>>39960
Anyone getting their dick out at a gay pride parade should be charged with public indecency. I doubt many would disagree with that. No idea what that has to do with people acting out humiliation fantasy by indiscreetly wearing diapers in public though.
▶ No.40035>>40104 >>43835
>>40018
>Anyone getting their dick out at a gay pride parade should be charged with public indecency.
Its very common to see that. But if they were ever charged the police would be accused of homophobia.
>No idea what that has to do with people acting out humiliation fantasy by indiscreetly wearing diapers in public though.
It raises the same questions about involving strangers in your sexual fetishes without their prior consent.
It touches on the same emotions of humiliation and breaking taboos by doing things you arent supposed to in public.
This isnt nudism or something non sexual its people who sexually get off on strangers reactions. Which becomes much worse when there are kids involved.
▶ No.40104
>>40035
>>40018
Modern day society places far, far too much emphasis on sex and sexual feelings. Someone wearing diapers for fetish reasons is functionally equivalent to someone wearing them for medical need. Hell, even someone getting their dick out and masturbating in public isn't actually doing anything harmful - they're just violating cultural taboos which tends to piss a lot of people off. Seeing a penis is not going to leave deep mental scars on a child. The reaction of their parents might.
▶ No.40135
>>39654
He means bagging them when changing in public. You're just being a cunt if you're gonna leave the bathroom smelling worse when you have some control (especially since it will smell worse the longer it sits).
I mean if you're bringing a spare diaper you have room for a small extra plastic bag which most people incidentally end up with plenty of.
▶ No.43830
Way I see it, most of y'all are living such unhealthy lifestyles, that most of y'all are probably gonna require diapers sooner or later in your life and it will become the new public norm :^)
▶ No.43835>>43897
>>40035
>It touches on the same emotions of humiliation and breaking taboos by doing things you arent supposed to in public.
>>39960
>People are half naked now and it's normal. People fuck in front of children at gay pride parades. Hell, children are even getting their rocks off there. Wearing a diaper in public is fine and holy shit, I'm so tired of hearing people say
Pick one, faggot. Either it's normalize and your degenerate ass can go expose the public to your wank fantasy or it's something taboo that your degenerate ass should keep at home.
Also, you're soooooooooooooo brave for "breaking the taboo" by shitting yourself in public and disposing of your diapers in a manner that makes someone else have to deal with/smell it.
Sometimes I am ashamed to share this fetish with spergy fucks like you who have no respect for society, no respect for yourself and no respect for the perceptions you give other people about incontinence/ABDL.
Kindly go fuck yourself, but not in your shitty diaper in public.
▶ No.43845
>>39656
>logically impaired comment
>works in a mall
>white trash/mudshark looking hoe
I mean the guy told her off proper but yeah you really shouldnt bring kink into those kinda places its just rude and makes the rest of the community look bad
▶ No.43846
>>39660
>slapping a friends ass
>making sexual innuendos
while I agree its light hearted your being a pos for not realizing your in a disney store with kids present
that makes you trashy as fuck and a bit of an asshole
▶ No.43847>>43859
>>39960
>People fuck in front of children at gay pride parades. Hell, children are even getting their rocks off there.
Wanna guess how I know you've never been to a pride parade and don't know what you're talking about?
▶ No.43859>>43881 >>43889
>>43847
Not same fag but as someone that lives right next to the gay fuck neighborhood I can attest to this being a legitimate thing. Especially in big cities. Just because you don't know about it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Stop talking or you'll embarrass yourself further. There's literally online communities dedicated to this sort of thing.
▶ No.43880
diapers can help prevent sexual harassment at the workplace!
▶ No.43881
>>43859
i love comments like these because you can tell they haven't stepped outside their bedroom in months
▶ No.43889
>>43859
Wanna know how I know you live nowhere near a gay neighborhood?
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▶ No.43905>>43936
go outside and you're bound to run into someone who wears diapers. Some even for non-standard sexual reasons. Better just lock yourself in-doors now and scream into cyberspace until you die.
▶ No.43936
>>43905
Probably, but I have never run into someone who made it obvious. Not even someone who revealed it by mistake. But what you're doing is conflating those such people with idiots who want to make it obvious as part of their fetish.
▶ No.43955>>43992 >>43999 >>44017
>people troll shielding this hard
Why? Why defend gross obnoxious assholes like the OP pic and Babystar? They're not you, it doesn't make what you do any less gross in people's eyes. Exhibitionism is rude at best regardless of what you're doing. Fuck em. I'm the total opposite of this. Like i'm gay and i hate flamboyant faggots more than anybody because they make me look bad by association, fuck them. Fuck these people too, they do the same thing. They make diaperfags look like total creeps and they do it so flagrantly. Imagine meeting someone and you tell them or they find out, but their first exposure to this fetish was the "people of Walmart" page on facebook or Mister Metokur's videos? Even the "daddy's cummies" meme exposed the average normalfag to DD/LG in a really gross way. They make the first impression of this thing a sideshow. The reality is most of us are pretty normal people who have this weird thing we're into, but if you get pigeonholed as a creep because of that exposure, it's really hard to reverse that.
There's no reason to defend this shit, but at least there's some reason to condemn it. Even if it's a million to one chance encounter.
▶ No.43992
>>43955
Chill out diaper bro. That association is mostly in your head man. You arnt going around introducing yourself like "Hi, Im anonymous and I like to fap into and wear diapers" right? So why would anyone ever think you're a creep like babystar, by the time they accidentally found out, you would already be seen as normal/cool gay guy anyway. It only really makes a difference for people that dont know and honestly who gives a shit about them.
▶ No.43995>>44018
My only issue with IRL practices is exposure to kids. If some prepubescent child is going to notice you're up to something then you're probably being a scumbag
▶ No.43999>>44021
>>43955
>other people should stop because it makes ME look bad. I should be able to dictate what others do based on what I want!
Yeah, typical moralfag
▶ No.44017>>44021
>>43955
>babystar
Who the fuck is babystar i'm curious.
▶ No.44018>>44108
>>43995
Human society is weird. We treat children like shit all the time, then get absurdly paranoid that exposing them to anything the least bit abnormal will scar them for life.
I've seen people happily advocate for poor children to be allowed to starve to death, then start talking about how swear words need to be censored "to protect the children" five minutes later.
As a general rule, humans are not fit to act as parents.
▶ No.44021>>44034 >>44110
>>43999
>not defending creepy morons is "dictating" behavior
faggot
>>44017
there's been a constant thread on her since this board started
▶ No.44034
>>44021
Oops sorry i have that thread hidden
▶ No.44096
>>39656
>White girl putting on garish whore makeup
>tattoos on lower arms
>talks in ebonics
>garish jewelry
>koolaid hair dye
This gutter trash is worse than DDLG in public
▶ No.44108>>44114
>>44018
False equivalency man here to tell us what not giving a shit about 3rd world spawn has to do with playing with children on the playground in a huge diaper in your own community/country
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▶ No.44114>>44127
>>44108
If you can't understand why that's extremely hypocritical, you're beyond help. Just do us a favor and learn to use punctuation.
▶ No.44127
>>44114
Not everyone is a filthy universalist Swede like you