/girltalk/ - Girl Talk

>>14101

When it comes to G & H I mean, typo.

>>5973

me too! It's the most common sleeping one for my bf and I (unless I decide to risk the boob pain and sleep on my stomach). We usually cuddle in F or A, and we often switch roles in those.

>>14093

eh, i can see that. My bf is on the dominant side, but I'm def the more assertive one when it comes to logistics and day to day life. I know it's something he appreciates.

I happen to prefer this. My boyfriend enjoys it so it's a win for me.

I started layering liquid lipstick under lip gloss for some mad deep red shades. It's mostly so I can leave huge obnoxious kiss marks on my bf, but I lile how it feels on top of a thick layer of chapstick. That said, my go to easy look involves some of that metallis liquid eyeliner by the Sephora brand.

>>15334

>it's mostly so I can leave huge obnoxious kiss marks on my bf

The lucky fucking bastard. You give him a goddamn faceful of them, sometimes. Don't you?

How does one use fake eyelashes? I put a pair on the other day, but within two hours they were already coming unstuck.

>>15003

Her vids are great. Very natural and pretty makeup.

Not her or OP but I had a psychotic "teacher" growing up. It was a homeschool kind of scenario, she was an abusive parent and it kinda spread to the other kids, including me. Like a lot of psychological shit, constantly putting other kids down, acting like the ones with disabilities just "weren't trying hard enough," and other weird shit like that. Not to mention her yanking her kids to their rooms to beat them, screaming and all.

>>19197

I've always been of the opinion that many people who become teachers, like cops, do it for the automatic authority it grants you in society. I know there are genuinely people who want those jobs so they can "make a difference", but if you're an abusive, power hungry freak, teacher and cop are undoubtedly desirable jobs.

>>19198

Or mallcop. Don't forget mallcop!

>>19198

It's a very interesting theory, people who work for the government in general seem to act like psychopaths, and then you couple it with the fact that the most bullying in society happens in government institutions (school, prison, army).

I have. He is a teacher and one of the coaches for the high school football team. I don’t think I’ll ever expose him just because I don’t have evidence and also I don’t want the attention. I just hope future female students aren’t left alone with him.

What's the difference between using a dildo and schlicking? Do you do both at the same time?

>>20521

take the wildest of guesses

Make your dildo at home

>>20505

I should specify the crown buffs apply to the whole party

Kind of want to play Monster Hunter World, but I don't really want to play it alone like I did with the 3DS version. I hear it's kind of easy though.

>>7333

Is anyone else into futa on male? No bully

When it's evidently the result of self-harm, it's certainly a window showing vulnerability. People can take that a number of ways, but a lot of similarly-feeling girls are likely to feel more comfortable. Not something to count on, of course, but if it's a girl that you're quite close to already, they'll probably be fine with it regardless of their own experiences.

Personally, I like them, but it seldom would register as a relevant feature. If they act real broody and emo, the cut is a red flag, but a red flag telling me what their personality already did. If they're acting inhibited and introvert, maybe then the cuts tell me a little more than behavior alone, in that case telling me they're probably very depressed, or experiencing some recent turmoil.

As a whole, signs of self-harm makes me think of emotional vulnerability. How I feel about that is always contextual to the personality.

I'm not sure this is best for a thread of its own. Maybe as part of a more broad discussion of a similar premise, or perhaps secluded to an existing thread.

It feels a smidge like "How do girls feel about me/my traits?" which isn't really what /girltalk/ is supposed to be. Maybe the /boytalk/ thread is best? >>6588

Hmmm. I never fetishized it ever and I cut myself too. I think that a guy who cuts is in pain and its really unfortunate.

>>20372

What would it indicate if you found them on someone who was motivated, stable, active and didn't engage in self-pity or act depressed?

>>20413

That's someone with the real mental issues then. I expect danger.

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Holism is the best point of view when it comes to health I think. The end goal of health to me is to have a happy, healthy life and die happily as well. To do this I must live a life that keeps my body pain free and full of energy, keeps my mind sharp and establish a belief system and live true to it that helps me accept death. Physical health, spiritual health, mental health, and emotion health all tie together.

Ensuring outside time will balance your vitamin D levels, which will make you produce more serotonin to make you happier. When you are happier you will eat less and do more art or read more books which will sharpen your mind, provide stress outlets, and bring you closer to God. Additionally going outside puts you in touch with nature and death. Your body is made to have children and sex and not having sex or children especially in your fertile years will cause enotional problems (it is unfortunate we are on a time limit and men are not.

These are just examples of little things that cause chain reactions and will effect your while life.

I am of the opinion conservative and liberal women should shun vanity and not care of society's opinions of them. Easier said then done if anyone has managed to conquer such a demon I would love to hear about it

>>20351

>not having sex or children especially in your fertile years will cause emotional problems

Though much of what you say is valid, I'll add that you shouldn't feel pressured to have sex when you don't really want it. It's not imperative to have it regularly or right away, just in general being good to find a secure partner that you're comfortable with *eventually*. Sexuality is normal and healthy, but having the right partner is a big factor to sex being fulfilling. There is no rush, or at least I don't consider the decades of time before menopause to be a rush. Take things at your own pace.

>if anyone has managed to conquer such a demon I would love to hear about it

I wouldn't say I'm without flaws but I do consider my perception of personal beauty and fulfillment disconnected from society. The way I wish to look and express myself are the ways I found most comfortable, and much of it isn't the cultural norm nor is it so distanced from it that I'm fighting about it. I like being lean, but I don't like make up or typical fashion. I like baggy but functional clothes with dark or neutral colors. I like my hair long and very pretty. My likes are variable between girly, neutral, and boyish.

I don't think shunning the social norms are the way, nor abiding them, but to try and free your mindset from viewing convention as a rule. Some things you prefer will almost certainly be what's normal in your culture, and some things will distinctly not be.

I dislike the "hardcore" feminists that demonize women who just genuinely want to enjoy something normal, even if it's something I hate like the make up industry. If you really like putting on all the hot cosmetics to look like Kim Kardashian, that's on you, and that's fine. But if you also enjoy Dragon Ball Z and shounen comics, don't feel like you have to portray it ironically to fit in, or hide entirely. That's what I see as the best perspective.

That lot gets a little away from the topic when it stops being about body image or other aspects of health, but it at least ties in with mental health at this extent.

>>20350

>Also try to abstain from birth control pills for a few months and see if your mood has changed

Regardless of the merits of the study, it's good advice to abstain from non-essential drugs for a month now and then if you take something regularly just to gauge your body's condition. Diet pills and many others as well.

>>20331

A woman that assumes direct control of the family union forcefully. Patriarchies are more widespread because most communities value men more than women and in general the job industry has always favored males, but there's plenty of countries where basically the exact opposite is in place. It's just as bad, you just have some member of the family forcing down his bullshit onto everyone else's throat.

>>20258

i'm 5'2, and i probably wouldn't date someone who's over 6 foot. i love shorter guys (and taller girls)

>>20311

>>I just my potential children to be tall.

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>>20311

Female alleles affect height, anon. Sorry.

>>20258

What is it with women and feeling insecure about their height and conversely needing a very tall boyfriend? I mean, I've been told by the women on my side of the family that tall boyfriends exist solely to pick things off the highest shelves in the super market, but still.

Have sex incel

>>20240

I'm pretty sure that would work nicely, after he overcame the fear it was a setup.

>>18393

It's not something wrong with you, its something wrong with him.

Guys are supposed to go after the girls not the girls go after the guys.

Maybe ask him to stop playing video games for a week and just go for walks or play sports or something.

>>18393

>I crave his attention and leadership. Told him this many times, but it doesn't seem to get through, and I don't want to nag.

You went up to him and told him these exact words or did you give him "hints" assuming he'd understand them?

>>20319

He also sounds slightly emasculated. Being a man is not about how muscular you are, or whether you do "manly" things. It also means knowing that you are the leader of the household. Very few men are brought up with this knowledge in mind.

I'm not sure exactly what would be the best way to change him, other than treating him as if he is the way you'd like him to act. Encourage him. Shower him in praise. Look into the Pygmalion effect. It will take time but he should grow into this expectation of him over time. As a woman, I assume you are better at recognising social cues compared to him, so you might be more comfortable with a subtle approach.

>>20306

Ban&Delete is a feature.

>>20307

That's not what shadowbanning means

>>20308

my bad!