advice for someone who doesn't know what the fuck he's doing with his life?

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advice for someone who doesn't know what the fuck he's doing with his life? Anonymous 12/21/17 (Thu) 07:27:30 No.369235

after having two relationships with girls, my last relationship with a cute mtf girl, and currently unrequited feels in a friendship with one of her mtf friends, i think i've come to the conclusion that i should just completely give up on women.

both of the girlfriends i've had were cute in a way, but i wasn't really sexually attracted to them because they were fat. i did love them though. every single time i browse girls on okcupid, every single one of them i'd like to date is completely out of my league. i'm not bad looking and i'm in somewhat decent shape and 6'1", but i have a shit autistic personality with no career prospects and i still live with my parents, and you're probably all familiar with how critical your personality and social skills are when attempting to get a woman to like you. just for the hell of it, i changed my preference on okcupid to bisexual just to see what would happen, and in a week i got roughly the same amount of attention from guys that i would normally get from women over the span of several months, so i guess the lesson learned from that is that gay men find me significantly more attractive than women do. the only chance i can realistically have at meeting a person that i'm attracted to is if i look for a feminine boy or mtf. just entertaining the idea of ever meeting a woman i'm attracted to is an exercise in futility.

the problem is i have no idea how to enter that world of dating and i don't know what to expect, and i don't know how to optimize things to specifically exclude anyone who isn't really feminine, other than simply turning down or outright ignoring the 99.9999% of contact i would get from guys who aren't cute boys. i think standard dating websites/apps would be a waste of time probably. if anyone has any advice or wisdom for a lonely autist who sees himself hanging from a rope within the next few years if something doesn't change, i would greatly appreciate it.

also if anyone lives near southeast utah and wants to get to know me. i am not a cute boy, i am just a regular guy looking for a cute boy. here is my discord also Lily Liver#3042

Anonymous 12/21/17 (Thu) 09:14:01 No.369240

>Pls no budfclly

You're never going to find a "cuteboy" who looks like a woman; it's an impossible fantasy that simply does not exist. Your problem is that you think women are "out of your league", when none of that shit about you matters once you get her drunk and fuck her in a hotel room. Thinking you might be bi because you weren't attracted to fat women is stupid. You don't like men; don't even pretend you do.

On top of this, gays are MUCH pickier about physical attractiveness than women are. When already in a relationship, women don't care much if you get fat. But if you're with a fag, he'll be taking care of himself, and expect you to, also. It's even more with the feminine ones, who have all the inane vanity of women, with the hardline expectations and drive of a man.

Anonymous 12/22/17 (Fri) 03:29:39 No.369291

>>369240

/board

Anonymous 12/23/17 (Sat) 01:56:38 No.369346

>>369240

you're assuming a lot about me, like that i just think dating guys is a last resort after only attracting fat girls.

like i already said, i had a relationship with an mtf girl who still had a dick and hadn't done any surgery. that's how i found out i was bisexual. so yes, i can be attracted to a man.

>You're never going to find a "cuteboy" who looks like a woman; it's an impossible fantasy that simply does not exist

i was using that term loosely. obviously i'll never meet a guy who looks like emma stone for example. there are plenty of guys i've seen who have feminine features and are merely androgynous and i found them attractive.

Anonymous 12/23/17 (Sat) 06:50:35 No.369360

>>369346

A woman with a dick isn't a man.

Anonymous 12/23/17 (Sat) 07:02:16 No.369361

>>369360

literally the only thing preventing her from being a man is her gender identity. if you have a dick, and you enjoy having sex with someone who also has a dick, then you're either gay or bi. how the fuck is it anymore complicated than that?

Anonymous 12/23/17 (Sat) 07:24:10 No.369363

>>369360

look i hope i didn't offend you, i don't mean to be a dick. all i'm saying is regardless of someone's gender, if they're the same biological sex as you (male) and you're attracted to them, then you're gay. she isn't a man, but she is male. if she decided to stop identifying as a woman and was just a regular man with the exact same body and physical features, that wouldn't magically turn from a heterosexual attraction into a homosexual attraction. it was always the same thing. if i'm attracted to a trans girl who looks like a girl despite being biologically male, then i'm perfectly capable of being attracted to a man who identifies as a man, but looks feminine in the exact same way. i'm not exclusively attracted to any particular gender or sex, i'm attracted to feminine physical features

Anonymous 12/23/17 (Sat) 09:08:49 No.369366

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>>369235

Is this guy feminine enough for you?

Anonymous 12/23/17 (Sat) 09:24:32 No.369367

>>369363

>>369361

Semantics are meaningless because OP is only attracted to men if they're so feminine that they're literally in the process of becoming women. Whether or not he's gay isn't the point.

He's never going to be happy with a man who isn't that feminine, and he'll never find one unless that man is a tranny. End of argument.