/cuteboys/ - Boypussy

>>343647

Lol use your imaginations?

I mean you do not have to do gay-missionary.

There are gay couples who are both top or both bottom.

>>343656

I cant use my anus for sex. Not only do i not enjoy it, I bleed always

>>343671

Malmø is pretty conservative comparing with copenhagen. Just buy some snus and soppa and take the train to copenhagen :P

>>343671

It depends on where you are. Sweden in general is very progressive. I haven't been in Malmö much, but I always got the idea that it's the more conservative of the "big 3." That's not saying a huge amount though. It's still probably a very LGBT-friendly town. as far as clubs and stuff go, I have no idea. I don't actually like going to clubs or big parties so I don't engage much with the LGBT community as a whole. It's still a big city in Sweden though so as long as you're in a decent area it's mostly likely very gay friendly.

>>343660

but thats my point man. Don't use your anus for sex. I don't get why everyone thinks that gays have to have anal sex :(

>>343681

I would rather just cuddle, but anal sex is expected of me

By refusing to have anal sex, I would be horribly restricting my fuckpool

>>343684

It's actually not as expected of you as you might expect from being on a board like cuteboys. Lots of gay couples don't do buttsex. It's just that people on communities like this like it a lot.

>>343685

uhhh, so what is the advice?

get on grindry and be myself?

mind you, i only like relatively hairless people

>>343686

Unfortunately I really don't know. Grindr has always seemed kinda grosser and more sex obsessed to me than tinder, but maybe that's just me being randomly judgemental because of stereotypes. I don't really know the best way to find cuddlebuddies, like I said. I'm usually the approachee. Just make sure that, wherever you go to find cuddlebuddies, that they know that you're not interested in buttstuff if it starts going that way. Just so that there's no misunderstandings.

>>343647

You sound hopeless for many reasons, tbh.

>>343668

Am I the only one who gets extremely annoyed at the way you swede cucks type? It just enrages me and makes me want to go pillage your weak, pathetic culture.

>>343715

Don't worry, brother, Daddy Abdullah's got this.

>>343715

Are you sure it's the way I'm typing and not just the little flag above my post that's got you unreasonably enraged for no reason at all? Because I don't think the way I type is any different from yours, dear amerifriend. Also…

>americans pillaging

You'd have to be able to get on a longboat without it sinking immediately first.

>>343647

>I am awkward and have severe social anxiety so """""dating""""" apps are the only way I can establish communication

>but since i'm such an unassertive

>But do I have to become muscular?

OP there's a bunch of bullshit in this post but I've highlighted what I would argue is the problem. I'm lazy tonight so I'm gonna be blunt. Fix your social anxiety, your only option isn't online, it's man up and put yourself out there. How can you get over your social anxiety if you don't fucking socialize? Do you have to get muscular? Well idk many faggots who want to get laid by skinny/weak short guys so I would say yeah you probably should tone up a bit. Lastly, the way you describe yourself makes it clear even you don't think you're sexually desirable so if you want that to change you're gonna have to grow a pair and become a man/adult who doesn't act like a bitch all the time. I know this is a hugely douchey post but all I read was "hey guys I am weak, scared and undesirable, what do I do to find a sub bf, I don't wanna sub ever btw?" frankly it annoyed me a bit and I'm a sub faggot sissy so hopefully this post is worth at least half a shit. GL bro

>>343718

No it's the way you tip toe around every single post like you're terrified of offending anyone even slightly. You reek of castrated liberalism.

>longboat

We're not in the viking era anymore anon. The time when your country was even remotely respectable is LONG gone.

>>343736

you can not comprehend how difficult it is to fix social issues. please respond to this by trying to give advice on something you have no idea about and make my day.

also, the only reason I don't want to bottom is because I've got hemorrhoids…

>>343749

As someone seeing 'social issues' remission, I'd say socializing really is the biggest thing. It depends on who you're surrounded by, though. Some people will encourage anxiety in really bad ways - right now, I've got one person most of the time and it's kind of a "walk on eggshells" person… I used to be a stripper and now I can go to the same bar where I used to work people and be afraid to even look at people because I never go out much now. I had to work to get to that point where I could do things like that, and I think that's the best thing to do. It's definitely not easy, especially if you're short on cash, now, though - a basic social life is pretty damn expensive.

>>343740

So it bothers you that I don't go out of my way to be an asshole to people? Was it the part where I said that height wasn't as important as people say? Because that's certifiably true, and unless you've autistically decided that your height is what's keeping you a kissless virgin it should be pretty obvious to see that. If you think you've ever been turned down because you're too tall or too short, I can assure you it was something else. Probably your personality judging from the way you're carrying yourself here.

>>343775

Just to be clear, i'm OP and i'm not the one you are responding to.

>>343647

joke and compliment guys????

>>343777

I know, but that's the only part of my post where I could possibly imagine someone would think I'm 'tiptoing around' to be inoffensive.

>>343784

Anon, the way you handle someone calling you a pussy online is by telling them they're a faggot and that you're gonna duck one of the I parents. This establishes dominance and forces them to go on the defensive. Childish? Yes. Effective? Well your mum thought so tbh

>>343808

I mean fuck obviously

>>343647

>I would be okay with just cuddling

Same

Average 5'10"/140 lbs here. 28 tho.

>>343818

they say anal sex is not expected but i'm having a difficult time believing this

if i wrote "i just want cuddles" in grindr, how would that be perceived?

>>343832

Going from a relationship with a former asexual and one that said I have a higher sex drive than him, it doesn't work out well. Grindr and dating sites are for sex, don't be confused.

Get fit, it'll only take 6 months to get your body into very attractive shape if you work out 3-4 days a week.

You have to think of it like this, how much do you want to fuck cuteboys? Enough to work out? Because there are men who are willing to look after their body to pursue other men who look after their body, like cuteboys.

>>343687

>but maybe that's just me being randomly judgemental because of stereotypes.

spoken like a true swede