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File: 8ad7dd9c33bb47d⋯.jpg (427.83 KB, 800x937, 800:937, 985ff15d460b522dc8cc8d20c2….jpg)

 No.343331

So originally I was very much a submissive bottom. I loved indulging guys most perverted desires and being fucked senseless, but as I've gotten older, gotten involved in weight lifting and exercising more I've lost a lot of interest in being the bottom and been much more drawn to topping and being more dominate. At first when I start topping it was not because I wanted to, but instead to please my partner at the time who preferred being a bottom (I didn't know until after we had already been dating for a bit and we were all ready getting along pretty well). Anyway I guess the point of this thread is about people who thought they would prefer a role but instead found themselves to enjoy a different one better.

pls excuse the OP pic I'm a dirty furfag

 No.343349

I thought I could force myself to be versatile for a while as I was sort of growing into myself, but then I realized that it actually made me really unhappy to do and I hated it and I only ever really wanted to bottom. Does that count?


 No.343354

>>343349

yeah that is an interesting story.

How do you feel when you top?

Is there anything in particular you enjoy about being a bottom you don't get from topping?


 No.343360

File: 0881404b9313855⋯.jpeg (175.46 KB, 1024x768, 4:3, 020adbf7f562c914aea0781ec….jpeg)

>>343354

I guess it just feels wrong to me. To start off with I don't really have an instinctual 'drive' to be a top. I don't really desire it at all. Nevertheless I figured that maybe I could force myself to become more versatile, because hey maybe I'm missing something I'd really enjoy, so I tried it with my at-the-time bf, something he felt more or less the same way about as me. He wasn't really interested in bottoming either but we figured that maybe it was just because it wasn't what we were used to, and that it'd be really fun if we tried it. For some people, like yourself, I'm sure that's the case.

It just felt wrong and weird and I wasn't comfortable doing that kinda stuff at all in the end. I don't really have another way of describing it. All I know is that I'm definitely not interested in trying it again.

Bottoming just feels like it suits me better in every way. It makes me feel happier, more loved, and more comfortable in general. It doesn't feel like something I'm doing because I'm forcing myself to. It does make me feel more vulnerable too, but that's okay, or even nice if you have someone there to make you feel safe and precious. It just feels more natural to me.


 No.343363

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>>343331

>as I've gotten older, gotten involved in weight lifting and exercising more I've lost a lot of interest in being the bottom and been much more drawn to topping and being more dominate

This is called growing up, anon. You were a boy and thus were in need of authoritative man to fuck some respect for natural hierarchy into your butt. Now you are a man yourself and now your prescribed role is to fuck boys that need authority. This shit is not even gay - that's how masculine hierarchies worked for thousands of years.

Just avoid fucking other bears, anon - that's disgusting faggotry.


 No.343393

>>343331

I used to be mostly interested in submissive stuff and bottoming a few years ago even having a huge collection of dragon dildos, but as I met some new people I started getting more into the idea of being dominant. Now I really like topping and being dominant over my bf, I'm still interested in bottoming from time to time, it's just that I'm a bit out of practice.


 No.343399

>>343331

is there a good way to learn how to be a top/be more dominant? people keep seeming to think that i'm a top, presumably b/c i'm tall and have a relatively big donger. i usually say that i'm vers but realistically i'm pretty subby & only really think about pleasing others.

you'd probably like nullghost's art if you're not already familiar with it


 No.343425

I used to be exclusively dominant when I was like 16 and dumb/selfish. Then I finally got over the whole pride bullshit and accepted that being a submissive little fucktoy is hot as hell too. I'm still dom most of the time, but being only one is just boring to me and I can't help but cringe at people who are "exclusively top" now because they just seem super immature and selfish to me.


 No.343426

>>343399

I'm apparently a really really good dom, and I seem to be able to really bring out the sub in qts. I'm >>343425 and the secret is literally just to act out your submissive fantasies on them. It's like how men always give the best blowjobs/handjobs because they have a dick and so have first hand experience in operating one.


 No.343443

>>343360

You can't really decide it doesn't work if the only time you tried it was with a guy who didn't want to bottom. If you did it with a guy who was insanely desperate to be fucked, and worshipped your cock, it's completely different.


 No.343453

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>>343399

OP here

I learned mostly from imagining how much pleasure I was bringing to them and how to best go about it. I like pleasing people at the core of it and at the time bottoming seemed like the best way to achieve that but then topping slowly seemed like the better option for me. I love being able to tease and pleasure someone and to take control of the situation and make sure they enjoy themselves. So that is the way that worked best for me.

post some for me and I'll let you know~

>>343426

>the secret is literally just to act out your submissive fantasies on them

>Literally this


 No.343455

ive always been switch but at first i guess mostly dominant, but i think thats down to all the guys my age who i was into all had 0 experience and just kinda wanted me to take control. and its fine of course but i was always kinda pissed that even if i did bottom for them they were fucking crap at topping. like, make the fucking effort you know? (and ofc these were all guys claiming to be switch)

but now with my current bf, he's still switch but like 90% top. and really really good at it. i prefer this a lot more. so i guess i sorta changed roles even though the role i used to have was just kinda forced onto me by guys being fucking inexperienced and silly


 No.343479

>>343443

I really really don't think so. You don't know how I felt when I was doing it. If I thought there was a chance it was because of him not liking it, I wouldn't be opposed to doing it, but I know that it's not. I didn't like it because it didn't feel right for me personally.

Besides, even if I was interested in trying it again, which I'm not really, 99% of the guys attracted to me are tops. The remaining 1% are versatile.


 No.343691

It's all about making love at the end of the day

masochists are also sadists deep down, and vice versa.

I believe its a matter of circumstance.

Find yourself a BF who's smaller and more subby in the bedroom, and you'll find dominating him fun and exciting and so natural

date a slightly bigger guy who isn't so subby all the time, but sometimes maybe strokes your hair and stuff and puts you in a subby mood, and suddenly he's fucking you senseless and you couldn't be happier.

Like the Swedish guy said ^ he's got the body of a bottom and his BF obviously has that of a top. if he was like 6ft 2 with a bigger dick, and his boyfriend was an inexperienced submissive nerd, he'd probably fall into being very dominant for him eventually, and feel like it's his natural role.

Me personally I was a subby bottom too, but tbh dick hurts me when it's more than like 5.5inches, and even then in certain positions it's just too big and causes me pain when it goes too deep. Also I'm like average height so I'm not that small, also I have a visual taste for smaller cuter guys, so if I ever did feel submissive, they can't really accommodate anyway, and I don't ever really feel submissive because they're so smol and weaker than me.

So

Tl;dr:

depends what assets life has given you, and following that, what type of guy is your visual preference at any given point in dating


 No.343758

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>>343453

Good taste furbro.

How do I deal with the fact that I feel really uncomfortable giving control to someone else but am also not demanding or strict enough to be an adequate dom? Everyone wants to wait on me hand and foot but I'm just not that needy.

Asking for a friend


 No.343761

>>343758

you sound like a pretentious cunt and I don't like you but could you post source on the dinosaur snek gym thingy? looks cute as baby seals…


 No.343765

>>343758

Damn, 8chan has been posting some great scaly art around lately. If only the boards dedicated to furshit would post shit this good.


 No.343801

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>>343758

Those pics are nice, I'm not normally into scalies but that gym snake picture is super cute~

>Everyone wants to wait on me hand and foot but I'm just not that needy.

The dom/sub dynamic isn't the rule and is more just a dynamic that people opt into because it appeals to them. If you aren't crazy about either than you don't have to conform to them. If the person you are with is really into the submissive role and playing along with it doesn't appeal to you, then let them know and talk about it with them. At the same time it is a give and take with relationships and if they indulge your sexual preferences they may expect you to reciprocate by indulging some of theirs. Overall though it is about both people agreeing on what ways they feel most comfortable making sex.


 No.343828

I used to think of myself as a very submissive person before I ever got involved in relationships, but I kept attracting subs and eventually I decided that I liked topping more. Topping is a lot of fun to me because the bottom trusts me to be rough and maybe a little mean to them and still be there at the end when we wind down.

On the occasions when I still bottom I don't really get the same thrill, which is a little weird because I love sucking cock. I adore giving oral attention to men, and even my bottom buddies love to receive blowjobs. I guess it's a power bottom thing, since I'm still a little tease-y when I'm sucking dick, but I love to power-bottom and suck dick more than I do to top and fuck a guy in the ass, because it's an act that purely consists of me giving pleasure.

tfw all of your boyfriends have had bigger dicks than you but they don't want to shove it in your bum


 No.343859

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>>343801

Maybe it's similar to what I was going through back when I suffered from d e p r e s s i o n. I get that it's a give and take, but I've just never felt that any take was worth the give. My problem.

>>343761

>>343765

At least I have these endless fields of 2D lizard men to keep me company~

Idk who did the gym image but I'm trying to find that artist. I have like 4 other images by them and they're all great but reverse image search brings up nothing. All my other images involve penor though and this is a Christian gay furry image thread.


 No.343870

>>343765

You're welcome to start a scalie thread on /fur/. We could always use more of that especially if they don't have boring human dicks.


 No.344365

>>343758

What is the story behind the snake in the other dino's pants?!? I must know!


 No.344471

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 No.353062

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>>343363

>This 100%




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