/cuteboys/ - Boypussy

>>340354

There's a straight cuteboy I interact with a lot. Wears skinny jeans together with vibrant colorful anime shirts a lot. He hugs a lot (not just me). Sometimes rests his head on my chest or shoulder for a few seconds. When you point out his cheeky bullshit he'll do that thing where he turns his head slightly to the side and puts his hand under his chin and gives a little smile. Talks with hand gestures a bit. That's all the experience I have with IRL non-internet is this one guy. He doesn't know how bad I wanna dick/snuggle him, but since he's specifically said he isn't interested in guys I no longer have the willpower to tell him. I'd rather keep him as a friend and feel good from hugs every once in a while, rather than try to tell him and cause a rift and have nothing. (maybe this belongs in the sadness thread too? :X )

Basically just act like a flamboyant child.

>>340370

Hes lying, believe me because I too have met somebody very similar to your description. He had a cheeky but cute kind-hearted personality, got excited over the little of things and had a rocking ass. he too told me he was straight in the beginning, tried to hug me on multiple occasions and i always used to just stand there speechless, but he ended up confessing to me in the end. best relationship I ever had and did not regret it one bit. Ended up being an ex sadly due to my lack of competence, meh… the point is do something if you have feelings for him, if you know for a fact that hes swings that way.

Try and ask him about his political views on the LGBT community, ask his friends (particularly grills) if they ever noticed anything rainbowy about him. Thats how I found out my ex wasnt who he said he was, I myself hid myself from gaydars until that god given day and it all worked out.

>>340390

>>340395

No we actually had a conversation about our gender/sexuality preferences before in text. (often more honest than face to face tbh) He said he was genderqueer but working on the specifics, and said even though he knows he acts girly, he isn't attracted to guys. I told him I'm firmly a man, and I'm attracted to cute, regardless of gender. There was no further development in that regard.

There's also the age disconnect. I'm 28 and he's 20. I'm fine with younger partners but idk his thoughts there, and I also have had 7 and a half more years to find who I am, what I like, and make sense of it all that he hasn't. Then again that last line sounds like more of a reason to not beleive him actually.

I think about telling him sometimes, but we're never alone. We mostly interact at a weekly meeting together with 20-30 other people. I'm really shy and getting him alone would kill me. I don't know if there's any way I could do it without being self deprecating in the process. The more I tell people about it the more they say go for it. I'll probably find a chance after the semester is over. I don't wanna stress him over finals week. It also depends if I'm able to move things forward with this other guy I've been kiking with or not.

>>340371

flamboyance actually turns me off quite a bit. Cuteboys are quite different from flaming faggots. Flamboyance feels really latin american to me. Like a style of gayness, and one that has plagued the gay community as a pretty negative stereotype of gay behavior imo.

>>340424

Well, flamboyant doesn't necessarily mean "like a gay stereotype". Flamboyant just means really excessive and expressive with your movements and emotional displays. It's simply the opposite of "reserved"; not my fault the flamers have requisitioned it and corrupted the meaning.

>>340370

Okei i see

I guesss cute clothes also play a part 😆

Cuteboy behavior is being more, bouncy, so to speak. Typical guy behavior, even super outgoing guys, are more restrained and upright in their movements and posture. Cuteboys are more dramatic, at least from my experience (coming from a high school where almost the enitrety of the male drama class was gay). Things like flashy or dare I say, flamboyant movements in the lower body, hips in particular are what I see from boys being cutesy. Of course any behavior is considered adorable when you're cute.

The cutest thing a boy can do is hang themselves as soon as they turn 20.

From the male perspective, cute is something generally locked behind being a girl. What we view as cute is generally "things girls do that guys don't". Cuteboy behavior is literally just doing the things that girls do that guys normally don't, within the constraints of biology.

>>340653

I disagree. "Cute" is what children do; it's just that women are allowed to continue acting like children, even when they reach adulthood (being emotional, always being treated kindly, needing to be taken care of, dressing more loudly) so the two often parallel.

>>341229

Most of these are appearance-things, not behaviour.

I've been told by guys that my mannerisms come across as cute, but while I'm not sure how much of that is true or what specific things I do that they like I can give a brief rundown of personality traits that I think they might be referring to.

I'm a soft-spoken, timid and shy introvert (though I definitely don't believe that that's cute behaviour. It can just as easily be seen as "socially awkward nerd" or come across as autistic. It can also sometimes make me seem cold and distanced towards people I don't know, which is a very unflattering characteristic that I'm trying to work on.)

I'm a total softy to a point where I don't even like hurting insects. I usually catch them and put them outside.

I'm pretty over-emotional and sensitive (I know, red flag) and get excited (and conversely cry) really easily

I'm really emotive and it's super easy to tell my mood from the way I look

I'm a total pushover

Personally I think, as some anons said, when people, especially people like the ones probably browsing cuteboys, say someone is 'cute,' what they mean is sort of feminine or maybe even just boyish mannerisms, submissive personality types and maybe a kinda demure disposition.

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>>341362

Hmm maybe we just don't see ourselves as especially cute? I absolutely did not find myself cute at all and still don't consider myself an official /cuteboy/ yet, a few times while out drinking with an older gay friend he told me he'd seen multiple guys and girls checking me out. I think our brains have trouble making the connect that we actually are cute and that's what guys want.

>>341436

>>341436

Are you me? I love it but hate that I love it honestly. I just want someone to hold me :3

>>341437

I know exactly what you mean. I say all of this but my walls are paper thin and can be torn down instantly. I once had this qt guy start flirting with me at my college and somehow I mentioned I'm part Italian. He started speaking perfect Italian teasing the shit out of me and I swear I turned red as a beat and wanted to just fall in his arms.