>>330418
When I realized that there's gay rule34 of just about every male character I think is cool, manly or awesome and it doesn't make me think less of them at all. Makes you realize you can still be an interesting and appealing person even if you want to get romantic with another guy. Enjoying the loving submissive parts of it used to make me feel ashamed like it was taking something away from my personality by doing these things but once I realized it's a small part of me and denying it doesn't change that it's there I slowly accepted it. also lets be real, it feels so fucking good during, be at peace afterwards and it's even better
It's so cliche but self acceptance will ease this so much. You don't have to tell anyone else, share it or "come out" just accept your biological reality and realize it's only 10% of you as a person or whatever.