/cuteboys/ - Boypussy

I know that feel anon, it's a crushing sad feel. But you should try to be happy he found someone to cuddle with, even if it isn't you.

>>312215

I mean I should, but it just kinda hurts to think about it… Also we're still friends so it hurts to talk to him as well :c

internet relationships aren't real

>>314994

that's the truth.

I only retain Internet contact with people I've actually met. But all that chatting is bullshit.

> honeymoon period

> the person has already a partner

> loose interest

> break contact

Yeah nothx

>began to date a friend in high school

>we had pretty good chemistry together

>best time of my life

>one day his mother found out

>his mother told my mother

>my parents kind of knew, but his parents really freaked out

>shitshow ensued

>he ended up changing schools

>I met him in secret after that, but not very often

>One day he said it would be better if we went our separate ways

>It hurt, but I already expected it

>this was 6 years ago, never dated anybody else after him

Not much similar to your situation op, but what I mean is that everything can go wrong even if things seem perfect. Sometimes it's just not meant to be, we have to move forward.

>>315060

It can work, if you're poly-amorous/or "a cuck", you just need to be trusting of your partner. And the other guy(s).

>start crushing on best friend

>knows i'm bisexual

>doesn't know how bad i want him

he's not even conventionally attractive, like he's big, and i'm not even into that, but because it's him, it doesn't matter.

hurts more that i feel like i could make him really happy if he saw me in that way.

>>314994

>>315060

So I mostly always lurk but because this is such a popular opinion, i want to address it, because my own experience goes against that.

My boyfriend and I met online, in a weeb chat, about a year ago. We've been together for over 10 months now and we're very happy. We live in different countries but he has visited a few times and he's actually spending Christmas with my family and I this year!

Tbh it's not always easy but no relationship is. I like him and he's a qt and we just both want to make it work. I feel like the misconception that online relationships don't ever function is because in the end most people don't actually *want* to be in that relationship, it's just convenient love talk and once someone comes by IRL they can just ditch the online thing without caring too much.

But if both parties really like each other, of course it can work. Online relationships have their up and down sides but as long as both people are happy with each other it can absolutely work!

>>314994

yes they are

my bf came to live with me all the way from the US

>>315109

tell more and post proofs

>meet cute guy online

>actually live right next to each other and never knew it

>we both just had different lives, he more outwardly gay (but not obnoxious), myself closeted and loner

>meet up a few times, hang out, etc

>wanna cuddle with him but don't know how to say so

>not sure if he wants the same with me

>we end up just talking awkwardly until we just agree it's time to leave

>this keeps happening

>we're both on the submissive side so if even one of us initiates it would be awkward

>sometimes he talks about other cute guys he's into

>realize there will come a time when I stop seeing him because he's dating someone

This is hell. I'm still unsure if I could ever have a relationship with someone suddenly, guy or girl, but I do wish I could just cuddle or something.

>>315139

Good luck! c:

>>315141

Have courage, my friend. If anything, you two can do the whole "I'm a subby cute guy whose going to stutter and be super embarrassed asking to hold hands" together and then eventually hold each other's dicks. Maybe not particularly in that order.

>>315239

We aren't the stuttering type, and I don't think he's embarrassed about that sort of thing and neither am I, just I'm afraid of making things awkward and I feel in a way I messed up so badly, though at the same time there is nothing to have messed up. And I'm still unsure about anything lewd and I don't know if he would want to do lewd or if I would be too boring for him since I'm this unsure. I'm not really someone to discuss lewd things, let alone do them.

Sorry about rambling incoherently. I just find myself thinking about holding his hand now and spending the night together. Been thinking about it since I wrote the original post earlier. Again I don't know if I'd ask him out since relationships for me are something I am unsure of as well, but it would be nice to be closer like that.

>>315139

Good luck fam. You're not *that* far off from where mine started. But it boils down to what French anon said. You need to actually love each other for this to work. Since most relationships are based on "I AM GOING TO PUT MY DICK IN IT" it's no surprise that they break when you can't. I'm a twink, but I'm pretty sure we would still be in a relationship if I was a bear. We care about each other, not how we look.

>>315141

I've been through that awkward phase in the first day my bf came here. I saw him wandering cluelessly near the gates after waiting for him for hours, walked to him, he took a few steps and we awkwardly stopped right before hugging each other and awkwardly said hi. Then we went to hotel, laid on the bed, and just talked. He made a few moves and I repelled them all because I didn't know what the hell was I supposed to do and was very scared. All I could do was lightly putting my head on his shoulder. I silently said "do it" once. He asked "are you sure?" I said yes, he said "I've been waiting for this in my whole life" and started kissing me. And then, like that anon said, whenever, where ever we two were alone, we would kiss. Especially elevator and bar bathroom. Which scares me because we weren't really silent and I frequently go to that bar.

Just go balls out once. You will feel worse if you miss the opportunity. But be gentle, don't want to scare him off. Maybe have a drink or two together first.

>>315269

>All I could do was lightly putting my head on his shoulder. I silently said "do it" once. He asked "are you sure?" I said yes, he said "I've been waiting for this in my whole life" and started kissing me

I read that line and I felt like tearing up. I haven't felt like that in maybe 10 years. Maybe I'm particularly vulnerable right now or something, but thank you. I'll follow that advice too and hopefully next time I see him I won't be so afraid. I just hope there is a next time.

>>315345

Sorry, I think it was just starting to get to my head.

Locally, there is almost no real "gay scene" here, unless you count perverse old men on grindr. Imo I look a little but above average, but I look straight. Any gay I meet pretty much thinks that I'm straight.

I can't help to look for a relationship, really. It's not that I'm codependent per se; after the past few relationships (with makes and females), I've been single for a while. I just feel that sort of envy and lonliness mixture, and it doesn't feel good. I dont have anyone tk turn to about this.

I just really don't know how to put myself out there as gay and available. So I resort to online, but I have no idea where to look, honestly.

>>315109

I'm jealous for the obvious reasons, but also double jealous because I really like Poland.

>>315051

Met my bf on runescape of all places, travelled a country to live with him. 3 years in a month.

Internet relations are possible, but not if you delude yourself.

>>315748

I believe you, I know a couple who met back in 2005. They have like 7 kids now.

>>315051

But the internet is the only way to find people. At least for me.

>>315257

i know this feel well

all I want is a boyfriend to love

I know I shouldnt look for a relationship specifically because nothing could come of desperately chasing everyone I meet like a weirdo. but Im so lonely and lovesick that its all i ever think about.

Ever have the exact opposite? When you get along with someone so great, they live just a few hours drive from you, then they end up e-dating someone halfway across the world?

its not fun

>>315051

Come over here to Sweden and fuck my boypucci boiiiiiii

>>321934

lul he probably just didn't like you in person

>>314994

YOU'RE not real

>>312207

I once had a pretty good, lewd and touching relationship with an Aussie.

Then, one day he stopped talking.

It hurts a bit. I don't even know why.