>>1011467
>Don’t even want to smaller cons because risking a cosplaying slut will calling a rapist for looking at her
Few conventions are actually that bad. The people who get dragged into the shitpit for looking at ladies the wrong way are usually infamous repeat offenders and people who are deeply rooted into "the cosplay community"
>Now it just attentioning whoring.
You've got that part right, though. And it's the reason why you probably don't want to go to fan conventions. Being a "fan" of things has changed. Tumblr made fandom into a cult-like phenomenon and it's really poisoned the way cons operate these days. So if you go to a con, most panels will be shit. Most events won't be worth going to. Most of the attendees will be shitty hipsters, attention whores, and spastic younger kids who have never heard of 99% of the shows you love.
So if you go, you'll be paying out the ass for a badge so you can wander the dealer's hall trying to find stuff that you could have just bought online at a better price, uncomfortably surrounded by people you detest. I used to love cons, but they're not the same now that I'm older and more jaded.