/abdl/ - Adult Baby - Diaper Lover★

>>63944 (OP)

I met up at a restaurant with an incredibly shy guy. We basically just sat in silence for about 40 minutes while we ate.

It didn't go any further than that.

I went to a meet up off of fetlife once with my girl….

Man, the guy running the munch was socially retarded, super liberal, and a bit creepy. They had their own social rules based on being non-judgmental, but that leads to other even creepier people.

There were 2 other normal folks I enjoyed meeting, they stayed quite and were just sort of hanging around, but we were dominated by the freaks. It was clear us normal folk were there entirely to just meet some other people into the fetish.

Gave me the jibbles… I like the fetish, but even the participants who claim they're "normal" and that they kick out the weirdos were too weird for me. The internet makes it look like things have gotten better in the last 7-8 years since we went to a munch but, yeah, not again.

>>63964

Where was that munch? I was thinking of going to the Atlanta munch.

>be 22yo college student

>been chatting with this boy for a over a month

>doesn't live too far from me

>isn't the cutest, has an unfortunate hairline, and is a bit older but has a sweet personality

>is also 5'5'' and i find guys shorter than me very hot

>has a cute spankable butt

>is 24/7, which is awesome but i make it clear to him i'm not interested in him messing

>find messing irl totally disgusting

>other than that i'm totally into being his daddy

>finally decide to meet

>get a hotel room

>am gonna take his virginity

>he arrives and is awkward as fuck but i ignore it

>we go see the Lego Batman Movie

>he's pretty soaked by the time we get to the room but i grab him and piss into diaper anyway

>he's leaking now, perfect excuse to finally spank him

>tell him get over my knee and he's being weird about it

>think if i just ignore it and play into the fantasy that he will come around more

>rip his diaper completely off and spank him red

>he's crying, of course, so i bring him onto the bed and cuddle him and rub lotion on his butt

>despite him still being a awkward and distant i'm rock hard and want to fuck him

>try and talk to him a bit and he says it fine, he's just nervous

>flat out ask him if he wants to just chill or wants me to fuck him

>he says he wants me to fuck him but seems scared because he is a virgin

>try and make it as comfortable for him as possible but frankly i'm trying to bust a nut

>he's making the cutest little whimpers and crying noises

>cum inside him like we always talked about and then after cooling off i plugged and diapered him so he can spend the night with my cum inside him

>watch some TV and cuddle with him, he seems a little more comfortable now

>make him get up once so i can piss in his diaper

>pass out

>next morning he tells me he needs to mess

>tell him no, and that he can mess on his drive home

>give him a big hug and he heads home

>doesn't text me for the rest of the day which is weird because he usually texts me all day like a clingy autist

5 days of me being worried later

>get text saying he's sorry, had a mental breakdown when he got home and was involuntarily committed

>then get text from his mom who calls me all sorts of names and says if i ever contact him again she will have me arrested

that was the first and last time i tried to seek out an irl relationship around this stupid fetish

She weighed 350 pounds.

>>63990

Getting into a relationship because of a fetish is stupid imo, don't mix the two. If they happen to be into the fetish then it's a bonus.

>>63990

Wow never before have I cringed so hard at such a fucking degenerate story.

Go neck yourself faggot.

THE LAST RAINFURREST …….

Never again will I go to a furcon or meet

>be 18

>meet couple on Fetlife

>meet them irl at a vanilla Halloween party they were having

>kinda weird being around their vanilla friends but w/e

>decide they're alright, if a bit cringy

>excited to have new fetish friends because autismo high schooler

>go to first ABDL-focused meet-up at their house

>most people there are alright, early 20s, sociable enough

>one fat dude was wearing frills over his diaper which gave me the creeps but pretty chill besides

>7/10 would do again

>get invited to another gathering

>am excited

>walk in

>only 3 other people besides the hosting couple and myself: the fat dude from last time, an ugly fat woman in her 40s, and the most autistic slender furry fuck I've ever seen

>wew.jpg

>woman makes me sit through disgusting photos of her lactating tits on her phone

>autist furry can't make conversation worth a shit

>fat dude creeps me out

>leave early because "sick"

>they invite me to more gatherings, almost begging me to come

>never go back

You win some, you lose some.

First time was weird, most newer group of weirdos showed up here recently and those meet ups were better. First one is one of the books.

>First munch, think I was 21/22? Was with my girlfriend now wife at the time.

>She knew, told me text and 1 letter and she will save me.

>Show up to meet, "normal" looking people there, might be fun

>Really wanted a beer, but drank 4 cups of coffee due to not wanting to be "Judged"

>Few more people show up, a really cool couple (Who have since vanished from the group)

>A couple of friends, not sure if lesbian partners or just very poorly groomed also show up.

>Start eavesdropping on other tables convos about religion and go all "atheist bullshit" and start talking loudly about how dumb religion is.

>Whole table uncomfortable, so we just shift topics.

>Rest of meet is decent, go home talk with GF about it until 2am cause of fucking coffee gitters.

Honestly, Some of those people have moved away (thank fuck, they were the biggest SJWs around after meeting a few more times) and the newer people are pretty chill. Was at a buddies apartment and we were all drinking and playing games and shit. I haven't been to munch or meet since the beginning of the year though as I just don't really want to associate with the community anymore.

>>63993

But she liked diapers so

At least you met up with someone. Being alone is hard

>>64024

Very much this.

I'm trying to organize my cities first meet up. Feels weird anyone here being into it too at this point, let alone having 5 younger 20 something's pop up around the same time.

I'm worried about being the weird one being the oldest (30), and I feel a bit hypocritical gatekeeping two WAY older guys I've been aware of but are like 50 and creep me out. But hell worried I'll creep them out. We've met once in public so no one is super autismo, but I know I'm super different crinkly and dressed up.

Any of you people been in the organizing position? What sort of things should I look at avoiding to keep things from collapsing into drama as so many diaperfags seen to fall into?

>>64045

i've done the organizing portion before. i can't really help you with things to avoid, unfortunately.

everyone kind of knew everyone else from discord.

the one i helped organize ending up being at a restaurant and the people that came were all super normal. orlando area, so i think 3 out of the 6 people that were there worked for the mouse, so we talked about disney a fair bit. talked about other shit, too.

we did a diaper trade/sale in the parking lot. felt like i was doing a drug deal.

>>63989

Not Atlanta. That doesn't mean you're safe but it wasn't a horrible experience, just a waste of time. It wasn't pleasant, but it's a free country, just leave if you don't like 'em

>>64001

Wait were you the one who ruined that convention? If so thank you for your service if not please thank him for me.

>>64001

Learned that lesson in college. A while back Anthrocon was in Philli, and I read on a forum that an AB/DL meetup was going to happen and recognized some of the persona names of people attending, and had RP'd with one. Philli was easily drive-able from my college so I figured why not. Posted I'd like to check it out and was sent a group e-mail about a lil'fur treehouse room at the con hotel.

Get to hotel, first time seeing fursuiters. There are a lot of them, *whatdidIexpect.jpg - Ride elevator up to meeting room, fursuiter riding with me makes a slow motion hug towards me and I just duck out with a nervous laugh, "No thanks," unable to tell if joke, suiter backs off never having said a word. Unsettled me a little bit, kind of set the tone of things.

Get to room, knock on door. Answered by a heavyset late 30's guy wearing only a rugrats t-shirt and diaper. Don't need to ask if right room, I have a badge with screen name and he recognizes my name and invites me inside. I stand there awkwardly, even though I pessimistically figured this is what the typical ABDL fan looks like its still a little unsettling to see in a diaper. No offense to them, or our shared fetish, it just wasn't pleasant to look at for me. I can see others inside who wave and although hesitant I go in. Six or so in room, most in various states of undress or 'toddler' clothing. I am a short skinny college guy and feel a bit out of place. Everyone is mostly just gathered around a laptop/projector setup where they are going slide by slide of everyone's commissioned art. Each slide gets an 'aww' from the watchers and they describe who did it and they talk about what commission that artist was like, etc. Aside from being unable to stop feeling uncomfortable in a room of half-naked strangers, it wasn't terrible and some of the art was allright.

At one point though, new art set starts and guy explains its his small child like furry who got age regressed from 21 back to 3, and here he is with daddy's lollypop, and daddy was making sure he got extra lube… and the crowd was just chuckling or still going 'aww'. Line crossed for me. I stuttered out 'Sorry, I need to go." Presenter seems affronted and said something to the affect "Why? Do you think these are pedo? Because my character's really 21." Don't even argue, just leave. Right from the room to my car. Like the heavyset dude in a diaper, its just not something I wanted to see. Whole thing scared me away from cons for fetish reasons.

I wouldn't say the meets themselves where bad (bar some of them running around screeching and giggling like autistic children, dressed like it too) with soft toys to top it off. Not extremely obvious but enough people were giving odd looks.

But the people themselves wew.. Turned out to be bitchy and cliquey despite online personas. Warning will be a long green text with no real payoff

>have daddy friend I met previously

>go to a group meet with him, he has an Abdl from another country staying with him too.

>after we 3 decide to drive to his parents country cabin for the weekend

>good fun

>fast forward a few months and daddy friend no doubt dreaming of the Abdl utopia of America, with capcon and that camp thing decides we should all go back to the cabin

>I've a daddy by this point who has talked to the event organiser plenty, he went to a meet with me. So he's not some creepy stranger

>group chat is all closed off about the event, reckon the lack of talk about it all was to exclude us

>friend suggests we all have a pre meet because they don't really know my daddy, OK fair enough.

>drive 2 hours to hang around a wet play park with the other fat and not especially cute or nice abdls..

>go to get food at a pub, one girl a popular Youtuber was smugly bitching about other abdls on YouTube doing changing videos but not getting as many views as her, saying she wouldn't sink that low. That kinda annoyed me at this point, but OK open mind. Cabin trip will be so fun with a group.

>girl also comes back smugly claiming she got asked for ID for buying a coke

>sure that happened..

>fast forward a bit more and I'm assuming everything is fine, but it gets to the time and nobody has said anything on group chat. All packed and looking forward to it. Start driving but still not heard anything.

>message friend asking if we were even wanted at this point and he just gives a vague come if you want reply

So didn't bother my arse going. The fact is Abdl as a shared interest isn't enough, they weren't the sort of people I'd be friends with otherwise. They ranged from being awkward and weird (something I can totally understand, to being loud and lol random obnoxious.but to top it off not even being especially nice people. Actually quite cunty. And especially the youtuber. I've since learnt the week was a horrific disaster and my friend hated every minute of the mental illness and drama, same when he went to capcon with them.