So I've been using Abena Abri-Form M4s for a bit now, and EVERY single time, they leak. I think I've had one time where it didn't leak at all. I was using drug store diapers beforehand and they leaked too but I figured it was because they're cheap. I kept hearing that Abenas can hold multiple wettings from most people, wtf am I doing wrong? Last night I had the worst leak yet, everything was soaked. Diaper, outside of diaper, pants, towel, bedsheets under the towel… everything :(
Am I doing something wrong? I make sure the leak guards are standing when I put them on and the material around my legs is flat, and tape snugly but not too tight. I'm a bit overweight so the fit around the stomach/waist can be a bit tricky but everytime they've leaked it's started around the legs. And the leaks are just from one full bladder, not multiple wettings.
Any advice, or tips on fitting diapers snugly? Do I just have a freakishly large bladder capacity? I'm female if that makes any difference to the fit.