>>27616
If you have garbage communication standards and limited ability to detect and filter out shitty partner behavior, of course you'll stay with that mindset your entire life.
What you need is a metric. There are just as many good play habits as bad and you'd really need to encounter quite a great deal of partners and play a vast range of scenes to know.
For example, in Eka's chat, a lot of the more laidback players in the public rooms with high post activity are usually within the good to great range of talented rp'ers when you can get them to agree with playing with you.
The more verbose and magnificent players usually stay in the Library room and have alt "hubs" that have many connected and fully-complete profiles. If you aren't one of those people that pisses and moans over a player having a few furry characters, then you might finally end up realizing that people enjoy rp'ing for damn good reason.
Most users with "Alts Of" as the start of their hub name is a sign of a player whose been at it long enough to cut the bullshit and keep it simple enough to want partners to greet them and start up quickly to show off their prose.
https://rp.aryion.com/characters.srv?name=Alts_Of&action=name
Others in this league may not have the exact same "alts of" way of going about things. For Example, there's players like Angie, Paletown, Big_Bang_Alts, Cross_Delta, TenaciousTinkerer, Happyflowers and literally any player who has a rabbit-themed predator or a prey whose profile has mutiple images of the same character whether OC or Fan character on top of detailed preferences.
If this info can't help you start seeing good roleplays in private or in public rooms, then I don't know what to tell you. You're just outta luck, bud.